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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know I made the right decision to end things but I need some encouragement!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi :) Hope you can help me.. I was with my boyfriend for 2 yrs, he is a nice person, but things didn't work out for loads of reasons, mainly because he has always been mothered, expects people to do things for him and he doesn't think to repay back, because his family h... (359 words)

Any insight on why he disappeared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So here's my story, a guy i know since childhood but havent seen since years starts to hit on me and gets in touch for several weeks before things turned romantic. Since we live in different countries we were basicly texting all the time. At some point he was focusing all his ... (246 words)

After two years, he doesn't want kids. This is a different kind of rejection--I am devastated.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a serious relationship for two years now. The topic of kids has been a back and forth issue for us--it's a stereotype, but here we go- I want children, and always have--he doesn't. He recently made that abundantly clear. After two years, this is a different kind... (530 words)

Married, open relationship, and now divorce?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

10 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need you guys opinions, please. Here's my situation: My wife and I knew each other since for about 8 years. We got married on 2011 so it would be almost 2 years of marriage. We both agreed on having an open relationship as long as in the end we would have each other. So shes ... (313 words)

We broke up because of facebook! Who's right?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

10 October 2013 (M) age 30-35 - So a few days ago my girlfriend randomly starts acting cold and won't tell me what's wrong initially. She then spills the beans and tells me that she saw me on Facebook liking photos and statuses of girls that she knows I used to talk to. We have a whole blowout and break ... (113 words)

I just want to be able to trust my boyfriend and enjoy our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have pretty serious trust issues that I'm newly in counselling for. My therapist says that I am constantly on the lookout and searching for bad things that may happen so that I'm not blindsided if they do occur. I'm fully self aware of all these issues but struggling to ... (242 words)

Do they girls also like the guys chest

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

10 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Do they girls also like the guys chest, as much as the case in vice versa? I am asking this because there was a girl at my university who used to stare at my flat chest fugitively, which made me wonder the point.... (46 words)

What's the best way to get proper help, ideally free, for this rut I'm in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

10 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - what's the best way I can get help please? ideally free. it has nearly been 5 years now since me and an ex split up, basically I took advantage of her also was scared of growing up,so. basically she got another dude,we stayed in contact over a year where she lied to me a lot. ... (267 words)

How do I choose where to live now that I'm on the job market? Boyfriend's or grandparents' town?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just come to the end of my two College degrees, and I'm finally looking for my first graduate job… but I really can't decide where I want to live - back in my hometown at my Grandparents house or stay at my boyfriends parents house where I've lived throughout my degrees, ... (811 words)

How do I gain my boyfriend's trust again? How do I prove I won't cheat?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How to gain my bf's trust on me again? I been together with my bf for almost 3 years, he has always been the jealous type. But he recently found out that just before we stated to go out I had a started texting a married guy who is a player and straight out told me he want... (364 words)

How can I go back to being who I used to be except better? I'm normally not obsessive so I'm so shocked at my behavior.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be very independent, made my own rules, did my own thing, I was very happy. But the relationship progressed with my boyfriend, despite loving him and him loving me. I noticed I have become so obsessed and I feel horrible. My obsession has nothing to do with him and ... (427 words)

Am I too hopeful that he likes me? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So-- this guy is in two of my classes here at college. He is in my major. He sits by me in both classes. There is a group of 4 of us in the same major that stick together (all boys plus me). Anyways, I cannot explain to you how attracted I am to this guy! I usually stay pretty ... (445 words)

I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I need your guys' opinions on this. So, I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. So, I'll tell you guys some of the stuff he does, and you guys give me your opinion. Please, and thank you. Oh and I do like him, i just don't know if he feels the ... (252 words)

Are we going somewhere or is this just casual sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) age 30-35 - i dated a guy for a few months and than things got complicated and we broke up , but i miss him and he says he wants to be good friends that that is better than strangers but we've been hanging out again and we just can't resist each other we end up having car sex after ... (202 words)

Abusive husband wants wife to move to Iraq with him when he's deported! How do we help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My cousins husband is from iraq. He is a failed asylum seeker and is now in prison as he was violent and abusive towards her. my cousin has stood by him as he begged her not to leave him. The home office want to deport him and if they can deport him he has told my cousin he ... (86 words)

Should I ask him on a fourth date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dating a new guy. We've been on three dates now. Having lots of fun and it feels natural. After the last date, he texted me the next morning asking how I was and said thanks for coming and it was awesome. A few days went by, and he texted me asking me why I never text him. We ... (193 words)

He's too busy! Should I be patient or let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel stuck. I've been dating a man for the past 5 months. He's divorced and has four kids that hes a primary caregiver for. He also has a demanding job. My issue is because he is so busy I barely hear from him much less see him. We have texted a little bit over the last two ... (157 words)