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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I just let him go? He doesn't like me as I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4038 days ago

30 October 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone.. I promise ill try to keep this short but I just tend to vent a lot and I apologize..But I live in new york and from brooklyn..and had to go to a town two hours away from where I live because I had to attend this modeling thing.. and back at home, I met this... (500 words)

My ex won't let go and is telling people how he misses me and sending me things in the mail

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Can any of u lovely people help me.... I've posted here before. I was with a man a few years older than me for 2 years. In those 2 years he cheated for 15 months (I was the mistress it turned out) I tried to stay and forgive him. It just didn't work out, I was silly to think It ... (426 words)

My husband said he was only on the dating site to look at the pictures

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my husband had been going on hookup/dating sites. He claimed he was using photos for masturbation vs going to porn sites. At first he lied and denied it at all. He said he didn't know how those sites got on his phone. (And I found them by accident, if you must ... (198 words)

How do I stop thinking about a lying cheating ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing a guy about six month ago, a few months into 'seeing him' he tells me he has a girlfriend. Gave me the whole as soon as he met me he planned to end it with her but couldn't bring himself to do it but he couldn't lie to me any longer. Anyway I was pretty torn up ... (315 words)

My online boyfriend just used me for money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet my bf online 4 months back. Initially he was very sweet. And always told me he loves me very much. We never meet face to face. He is financially a broke. I helped him pay half of his house rent once. He also didn't have money to eat food I also helped him with that. I ... (296 words)

I feel like I'm being disrespected, used, and attacked by my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 13 months now, and I have never loved someone so much before. I recently started my first year of college, and my first job. My motivation was him, it was for our future. He on the other hand wont do anything! he wont go to ... (417 words)

Will the Way He Treats Me Be Enough For this to Work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together a couple of months. WE moved in together already. People think it was to fast but we are happy and in love. We work together sometimes too so we spend most of our time together. I met my bf when he first came back to the city after spending t... (282 words)

Can I stop him sleeping with a new woman, Just this weekend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I hope you guys can give me some advice? Here's the story... Sorry it's so complicated. i came to this city to build a career and get over a bad break up.. i built my life up, had a fantastic high paid job i was very good at and got on brilliantly with my colleague... (1559 words)

If I don't call her or ignore she is sad, so does she love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've being friend with a girl for quite a while. We do talk a lot whenever we're together. She gets amused to every of my jokes. She likes complimenting my physical features like am cute all the time i do prepare for an occassion. She compliments all of my pictures. Truly i do ... (590 words)

Are my standards too high when it comes to dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

30 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Now I don’t mean for this to sound shallow at all , but I am really buggered with girls for the past 3 years , I don’t know if I my standards are too high , it just seems the girls I am interested in give me some interested but don’t actually bother meeting me and so that ... (416 words)

Will my boyfriend lose interest when his son (to another woman) is born?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex and is due very soon, I'm worried once the babys born me and my boyfriend will grow apart as he will be looking after his son and being there for his son, I don't want that to happen me and him are very close we see eachother everyday, ... (74 words)

Will taking this break help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are on a break to give us time to think and figure things out. He didnt want to take time out but I forced it because we constantly kept fighting and he constantly broke his promise never to get angry at me over small things. And this has had a big effect on our ... (185 words)

What should I do about a guy I met online? He didn't reply to a text but had time to log in to dating site.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please need some advice! I have been going out with a guy I met online. He told me he only had one other girl friend in his life ( hes 37). He was quiet and seemed lovely. Well it's been 4 dates. As we have great chemistry he has spent the night at my place but we hav... (234 words)

What am I doing wrong in my friendships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Need advice about friendships.. I'm going to try not to sound too much like a victim here, just bear in mind i've fallen in a heap and am feeling a bit sorry for myself.. For as long as i can remember i've had difficulties with friendships and being treated ba... (666 words)

I messed with her emotions and crushed her heart. Do I deserve her friendship again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm bisexual and some time ago I was seeing a woman during a rough point in my life. I was going through a divorce and simultaneously trying to detach from an emotional affair I was having with my male boss. The woman I was seeing had no idea I was still married nor did she ... (387 words)

My boyfriend said "I love you" so quickly! How long does it take for them to know they're in love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He told me he loved me for the first time very early in our relationship (2 weeks) and it kinda freaked me out how early he said that. For a while I just wouldn't say it back until I truly felt I was in love ... (314 words)

can you love, or have strong feelings for someone you have never met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to sound like an absolute idiot for asking this but, can you love, or have strong feelings for someone you have never met? I'll tell the story. We started talking a good five months ago, he lives in the same town as me but i had never actually met him. I've seen pic... (323 words)