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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Did I offend her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Did I offend her? I'm originally from Pakistan and studying at a university in London. There I befriended a Lebanese girl. We became really good friends. We hung out and did all kinds of stuff together. She usually interacted with other girls and I was one of the few male fri... (234 words)

She agreed to be my girlfriend but doesn't contact me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 months ago I met a girl at a convention and we hit it off really well. She lives far from me (about 50 miles), but we started to see each other virtually every weekend. We've spent the night at each others places, but we haven't had sex yet (she doesn't feel ready ... (355 words)

My husband forgot my birthday again, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? I really have no idea. My husband forgot my birthday last year and demanded that I come up with what to do to get him "in the clear". He once again forgot my birthday this year. I was devastated. I was out of town but he had known in advance that I was going ... (185 words)

My period is due when I've arranged to see my fwb

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm supposed to be going round to my fwb's place this weekend but I'm due my period within the next few days. If it hasn't arrived when I go round should I warn him I'm due on or not mention anything and just hope it doesn't? What do the guys think? It's just casual and bee... (69 words)

Drunken horseplay, and nine years later she's openly rude.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. Thanks for considering my question. Nine years ago, I was the Best Man at a dear friend's wedding. It was a wonderful, joyous and fairly raucous affair. High energy, lots of joking and horsing around, and lots of laughs. Late at night, after man... (325 words)

Want to become friends, but I don't want to come across as creepy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl who I graduated from hs last year who I'm following on twitter. We barely talked in hs but she seems really cool and nice and I would like to be friends. I've been feeling really lonely since I started college and haven't really been making good friends but ... (107 words)

He would never like me as much as I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There us a guy who has recently transferred to my school, i am really starting to fall for him BADLY. I dont know what to do because hes the new popular guy and am just a quiet nobody, i have him in nearly all of my lessons and am constantly thinking about him. The worst thing ... (145 words)

I get self conscious that they joke that they don't want me there, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always had trouble making friends because im quite shy, i only really have two friends, one is in a relationship so is always off with her boyfriend and the other girl is really popular and literally everybody likes her because she actually such a lovely confident person, ... (134 words)

Friendship with women is no problem, but relationships are another matter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Why I get along well with my female friends for years but not in relationship? Why the same spark in relationship ends quickly and negative things get bigger and bigger? Why I talk to my female friends for hours and hours on Internet, phone and in person but in relationship ... (120 words)

Does being civil with an ex for the children's sake ever work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - do you think following a break up, a nasty break up, with someone you have children with, that you can eventually be civil to one another or even be friends? Or will that anger and hate stay?... (38 words)

Jealous of my Boyfriend's Past Relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am in a fairly new relationship, about 1 month old. My new boyfriend currently has much more long term relationship baggage than I do. He has dated multiple girls and he was with his ex for two years. I on the other hand barely dated before him with no history of a long ... (194 words)

Who calls first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm in a bit of a pickle with my boyfriend of over 2 years. We had a big fight last Friday, and since then we've not seen each other once. I've texted asking to sort it out, but he ignored me, then I said I was taking a few days to myself and he finally replied saying w... (155 words)

Is this what love is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - What is Love? I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year now. I do care about her, have fun with her, find her funny, clever, beautiful etc. But is that what love is? I'm there for her whenever she needs, we never fight but do have the one or two disagreements. I... (118 words)

My vagina is very wet and it makes an irritating sound!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my vagina,everytime when i have sex it becomes too wet and makes an irritating sound which makes me not to enjoy... (26 words)

Is it normal to have hair there? How do I tell her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 years old and I have been with my girlfriend who is 24 for 5 months now and we are a stage of absolute relaxation around each other, she is the most amazing person I have ever been with, she is so kind, she is caring, she is funny and just simply beautiful in everyway. I ... (191 words)

Feeling so low after the break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I wrote here first when my boyfriend ditched me without stating any specific reason. What I know is that he just wanted to marry a girl of his mother's choice in their hometown and he was making me fool by showing love just to take benefits in his job and stud... (179 words)

The spark is gone with my b/f, and there's this other guy ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I will start by saying that I have a boyfriend for 2 years. We are in a very good terms with him and I care deeply for him and so does he. I guess it's love. My boyfriend and I have been on many adventures. I love him still, but I think I am at that point of the ... (311 words)

My fiancee's mother hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know this is quick. so I have only been with my fiance for 10 months, he asked me to marry him after 5 months we got a ring after 9 months. We met online and I love him so much (success story) we are absolutely besotted with eachother, but there is one problem. His ... (398 words)

Does my ex want me back after I had a miscarriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am doing no contact with my ex but he keeps coming into my work. I am so mad with him for what he did to me I don't think I can ever forgive him. We have split up once before and he would not stop ringing my fone for weeks and then eventually I answered and end... (970 words)

My ex-husband told my daughter about my possible diagnosis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I have recently been told that I have possible tumors in my utrius. I am having further tests in a couple of weeks. My ex husband and I have been divorced for 2 years now and we are still close friends. Both of my children live with him, B female is 15 and S ma... (305 words)

I don't know if this is love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age - I have been marriaged for 12 years and I moved to another part of the country because of my husband. No friends,only his freinds and family. My family was far away from me,so I saw them once a year. I made some friends but nothing serious. At the beguining my sister in law took ... (566 words)

Broke up... feeling sad. Thoughts? Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend, of 3 years, and I broke up Sunday night. We're both the same age and don't live together, but spent weekends together and any days during the week if we found time. We were a serious couple and had talked about children and settling down one day. We got to a po... (752 words)