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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's a terrible mess, can't stay, can't leave my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I'm a 39 year old woman, been with my husband for 11 years, one of them married. We have two beautiful children. My relationship with my husband began breaking down about three years ago. Too many details as always but essentally it was largely due to... (1593 words)

He has lost all faith in me after I snooped, how can I put things right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a lovely relationship with a guy in his 40s. His wife left 3 years ago after they mutually separated after 20 years due to growing apart. She came home pregnant and moved out shortly after with her new partner. My boyfriend has a 20 year old son who recently... (296 words)

Is this something that can be salvaged or should I throw in the towel now and save myself time and heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really unsure if me and my boyfriend have a future together. After nearly a year together I discovered texts on my boyfriends phone begging his ex to get back with him from around the time we got together. I snooped on his phone, don't ask me why. We were happy at the tim... (414 words)

My friendships are fading and I can't stop it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have trouble making and keeping friends. I used to not care but lately it has been on my mind a lot. My only best friends are my girlfriend and her best friend. I have hung out with co workers and I have a great time. It's more of a group thing but lately I haven't been inv... (274 words)

How do I stop beating myself up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, just a quick question maybe a daft one but answers may help,have any guys got tips on how to not beat my stuff over things and dwell on them? for example I did go the gym 3 years back and started doing well but lost motivation and want to start again properly. I have ... (129 words)

Would it be awkward, creepy, or inappropriate to message my nurse out of the blue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently I have been to a clinic to be seen by a doctor. The nurse that waited on me prior to the doctor was very cute and friendly. I really wanted to try and make some kind of connection with her but it did not seem appropriate at the time while she was taking my blood ... (136 words)

Should I wait for her or should I make the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there.. I got out of a long relationship 5months ago.. I haven't seen anyone since then. I met a great girl once and since then we.ve been cahtting everyday and flirting a lot.. The problem was that she had a boyfriend at that time and I didn't want to get in the middl... (126 words)

I'm having trouble on how to ask this girl out on a date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble on how to ask this girl out on a date. We've been talking for about 4 months now and I her friends seem to think she likes me too. I'm just not sure how to ask without looking stupid if I get rejected. Thanks... (48 words)

I'm so broken-hearted, he moved his camper, took his dog, he took everything from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age - i meet my boyfriend 3 years ago. i have many children that r older but do have a16 year older and aa grandson thats 10. i have spent a lot of time with i call him sam. i couldnt understand him very well, thought maybe his ex wife he couldnt get over, but foumd out it was pill... (357 words)

My ex told me she still loves me.... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Everyone! So this morning I was totally blown away. I wrote on here a few days ago about how I just couldn't get over my ex. She is everything to me. I've tried everything to get over her. I've kept myself busy, gym, work, even dated other girls, but nothing has eve... (437 words)

I have some doubts about him as a longterm partner!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend asked me to marry him, and now I am torn. Idontknowif anyone else went through the same analyzing stage before getting married, but this is what I am doing right now, and question myself if this is real love and if few qualities that he posses and I clearly see ... (689 words)

Would a guy ever leave a woman if he really loved her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me and said.. "I'll always love you..You were an amazing girlfriend" What does this mean?? Would a guy ever leave a woman if he really loved her?... (35 words)

I'm at a breaking point because of his rejections!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this question gets asked alot but I'm still confused about my situation. I'm head over heels in love with my boyfriend of over a year so was delighted when he asked me to move in with him recently. He's so caring and sweet to me he's the only man I've ever slept with.... (636 words)

What topic should I use to approach girls? I'm shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey... i am 17... i live in india.... and as you will see in my previous question how shy i am. I dont know what to talk to girls and all..... now i will explain you. Previous year i joined a class for studying and there were many hot girls sometimes i saw them looking at me ... (160 words)

He hasn't made a move in 6 months, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I'm very much in love with him, I've had many boyfriends before but none that I felt so much love for like I do for him. I was in an emotionally and sexually abusive relationship a couple years ago where my ex would ... (457 words)

How much do guys care about acne?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi.. Well here's my question.. I have acne it's not terrible but it is definitely noticeable and I cover up the redness but the bumps are still there... So I am 14 and all guys care about are looks! But how much do guys care about acne ? ... (49 words)

I love men, but don't at the same time. Can anyone help with these feelings I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if im a lesbian or not. Or bisexual. I'm totally lost. I like a man right now, but he treats me so crappy. I have been with women before as a teenager, and dated them, even cried over one. But I thought it was for sure a phase and that I only like men now. Be... (156 words)

Do you think he's found out about my hook-up? I don't want to text him because I don't want to annoy him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a date with this guy and It went well, his definitely my type. We've texted each other and are always flirty and he said we definitely have to hangout again. However there was a party I went to and one thing lead to another I hooked up with a complete stranger... (155 words)

Did fate bring us together at the speed dating event? And is this considered a relationship based on infatuation or real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I might be cynical in saying this, but I didn't believe that fate could bring two people together as it was always something I saw depicted in movies. Never have I ever experienced love like this when I met my current boyfriend who lives 1000 miles apart from... (324 words)

What kind of costumes or looks would you recommend? Because the manager's demands seem unreasonable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a restaurant server and our manager just sent out a ridiculous memo. We have to wear costumes for the week of Halloween or we do not get our tips. I feel this is unethical and illegal. I also learned that if we order through the catalog he provided, he gets portion ... (151 words)

Should I consider marrying my best friend, even though I don't feel anything for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend we have been really best buddies since 5 years and started to like me but i dont have feelings for him, he proposed me n i became mad and ended our friendship, after a year i contacted him because i was really falling apart due to my loneliness and i felt guilty ... (167 words)

How do I organize a nice evening at home?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have met 2 females whose company I really enjoy. One, we have agrees to remain friends and have started sharing many secrets with eachother, the other I am very interested in. Now both have started coming over my house to hang out but both times this happened, beside g... (95 words)

I hate her for leaving me but giving everyone else a second chance. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

21 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - During my freshman year of high school, my best friend left me in December. She never gave a reason, and was suddenly out of my life. It was tragic, but I wasn't alone. I had my sister, my best friend (who goes to another school), and my mother. By the end of my freshman... (638 words)