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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I using one girl to make another girl jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I need some advice. My situation is a bit complex and I have to explain it in detail in order for you to understand what my problem is. I'm originally from Azerbaijan and currently studying in the U.K. I've been here for 8 months. Initially, I was doing graduate diplo... (682 words)

I get intimate with guys too soon

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a tendency to meet a guy and get into his bed (not for sex but to mess around nude) by the second or third date. Usually not intentionally. Its like I flirt and want to kiss and stop there but guy wants more, I pity them and give in. For example, we went to a bar, he ... (341 words)

I wouldn't sign the pre-nuptual agreement, so now he wants a post-nup

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband wanted us to sign prenuptials(stating that in the event of a divorce, everyone will walk away with what they had prior to the marriage.) before we got married 2 year ago. I refused though he vehemently asked for it. Well, he has requested again and i want to agree but i ... (118 words)

What's the etiquette for your dating profile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Online dating question! When do you take off your online dating profile? ! I have had two great dates with a guy I met online but notice he is CONSTANTLY on the dating site! I know it is very very early days but I still notice. Yes I have logged in just to check. My bad... (140 words)

Boyfriend doesn't approve of male roommate

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I found a perfect apartment that has the perfect location , amazing price, and what seems like a great roommate from Craigslist. Only problem, my boyfriend absolutely hates the idea that I want to move in with a guy who I barely knew. I understand that he's worried about my ... (232 words)

He's withholding emotionally and romantically.... Advice please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together 3 years. We're both in our early to mid 30's. We don't live together but usually spend weekends together and sometimes during the week if we can work it out. He used to be emotionally/physically available to me until we started fighting over ... (775 words)

My son has quit communicating....should I talk to him about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My son has been a relationship for about 2 months. He lives out of town and up until he started this relationship he called or texted me almost everyday, and came home to visit at least every 2 weeks. Now, I hardly hear from him, and when I do, I am usually the one to make ... (169 words)

Is this really an issue for counselling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My boyfriend of 2 years has been wanting to go to counseling for awhile, but I don't think its necessary. He is just mad because I haven't looked for a job in the last month. I take 4 classes 2 days a week at a community college so I am always doing homework for ... (165 words)

Lingering guilt about how we got together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Four years ago my fiancee and I got together in a not so good way......his relationship with his wife was going down hill (so he told me) and she was also seeing someone else....at this point we were work colleagues who crossed the line and started to have a bit of fun ... (319 words)

Can a man get addicted to the woman he is having an affair with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So recently I heard a man say that married men come into 3 categories: 1) The ones who have been faithful for a long time and suddenly discover (about the age of 45 or so) that there is sex beyond what they are getting at home and once they have their first affair, they ten... (174 words)

My widower partner on chat rooms to women - this is ultimate betrayal and cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age - hi, I am a female and i have been with my male partner for 6 yesrs. he was widowed in may 2006 and I met him on match.com in September 06. he has been hard work due to his three steps forward two steps back routine and he just has periods when he is emotionally frozen, no hugs ... (389 words)

We havent had sex and its been 3 months since we married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 24 year old and my husband is of 30 age . we have just complete 3 months from marriage and we didn't have sex yet?... (28 words)

I'm saddened and turned off by her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) age 36-40 - So recently my ex and I got back together. We are lesbians. I thought she truly xared for me. In the past few months even prior to my breakup ive been on a quest to stop masking my beautiful features. So ive begin getting my hair done weekly, nails done, eyebrow arch, new ... (205 words)

I want to be free and do as I please, Except he gets really jealous.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no one to discuss this with and I'm hoping someone out there could help me out. Greatly appreciate it.. So this situation is mixing my emotions up a whole lot! So I've been with my boyfriend about 3months and things are going well! Except he gets really jealous. I'm ... (287 words)

I like her but I feel like this needs to be more 50/50.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I just met this amazing girl, She is great we get along so well and have alot of things in common . She has a great since of humor and honestly is the nicest girl I have ever dated and not to mention most attractive. The only problem is she dosen't drive she has bad anxiety ... (230 words)

How do I respark his interest in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So we have been together for 5 years. In the last two months, the thought of his mouth being on me in any way has become disgusting because he has begun dipping (which I have made clear that I absolutely despise.) He told me today on the phone when I said I "wasn't in the mood ... (245 words)

Would it be ok to date her because of our ages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

16 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I graduated from high school last year, and there was a girl I liked who was a freshman. She had a boyfriend for all of last year, so I didn't really get the chance to be with her. I'm in college now, and I found out that she and her boyfriend broke up over the summer. She ... (110 words)

My Bf has not told his parents that we live together. His mother wants to visit him. How do I get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) age 41-50 - Hi!! I'm kind of stuck at the moment. I'm chinese born and raised here. My boyfriend and I are the same religion Hindus. He's from the states as well but born in London. His parents are also in the USA. So my question is. My boyfriend and Iive together for about a year now and ... (382 words)

I feel like I'm afraid of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old. A virgin, (no one knows,because i dont really tell anyone) to be honest i've had one boyfriend which lasted for about a month and i ended things through texts. I feel like i'm afraid of love? could that be possible? i met this guy online (i'm not getting ... (171 words)