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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He is quite confusing, he never seems INTERESTED interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a boy I met on a school outing last year. Call him Simon. I added him on fb and would chat to him about his/my school stuff (societies, prefects etc.). And coincidentally we both ended up as Head Prefects at our differemt schools. So ofcourse, I used it as the best ... (299 words)

I don't feel sexually validated by my boyfriend and have found an online MM in another country who understands me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I start?! My problem seems so silly but it's got me so confused about what I want with my life. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We're perfectly suited in every way apart from he's just not horny! At all. I've tried so many things to liven him up but it's ... (582 words)

Is it usual for guy 1 to ask about other dates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, another internet dating question. If you are talking to more than one guy, is it usual for guy 1 to ask you if you've got any other dates lined up? Basically guy 1 chatted to me for ages, and when I asked to meey.him he ssid he would if he were not working. (He's ... (262 words)

Does FWB never lead to a relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - If a man only wants friends with benefits, does that mean he will never want a relationship? I was wondering if it's possible for a man to change his mind and want a relationship with you?. I know a man who wanted friends with benefits with me at first, as he had recently bro... (212 words)

How do I explain my time off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I decided to take this year off due to complete exhaustion and stress. I've been in school for several years now, and I needed a break. I haven't told any of my friends yet, because in my past experience they have asked nosy questions. I did tell one friend, who imme... (154 words)

He's become distant, can I make him interested again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for a few months and been very flirty, to the point of sending flirty texts etc. We both admitted to liking each other - however there were a few complications in our way. Anyway these complications got sorted. We started dating and ofcourse I had sex with ... (131 words)

Do I owe a family member because she allowed me to park my car at her place?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice so I bought my very first car by myself. I'm so happy. When I look at my car I just smile and just glow because I did it all working 2 part time jobs. Taking up to 4/6 buses a day. So I worked hard for my car. Now here's what I need advice on, I bought my car ... (465 words)

How do I deal with the silent treatment?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How should I deal with a known narcissists "silent treatment"? He is my boyfriend. This is the second time he has done this in a six month period. He cursed at me about two weeks ago and I couldn't take the abuse anymore and let him know how I felt about it. He has since ... (108 words)

What can I do to supress my feelings, to avoid these emotional pains?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear community, there is a big problem that is really really bothering me. First of all, my girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 6 months now, and from all I can tell we're both pretty happy with each other. Everything should be perfect but there is... (527 words)

My parents abandoned me and now they are asking me for help! Please help me deal with the anger?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a little issue - I was raised by my grandmother because I am the 1st born child and both my parents remarried after I was born. I never really had much contact with both of them growing up and actually thought my grandma was my mother until I was 8 yrs old. I am now ... (251 words)

I'm feeling depressed and taken for granted. Please help me to deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 years now. We have had an ok relationship, it's had its good parts and its bad but we've usually battled on together. Recently i have come to realise that it is likely that I have depression. On top of this I feel like my boyfriend is taking me ... (117 words)

Help dealing with paranoia... its hurting my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I'm a very paranoid person and I've started to recognise that it's now getting to a point where it's out of control. I can be fine one minute and the next be flipping out with my fiancé talking to some girl at work. I think because that's how we met I keep think... (167 words)

I don't want to ruin our friendship over sex. Should I just come out and say it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age - There is a woman I used to work with that became a good friend, though we rarely see each other. We're both in our early 50's. I did some repair work on her home a few times. I am separated from my cheating liar wife, she is married. About a year ago we met for breakfast before ... (345 words)

Anxiety after losing my virginity to my cousin. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago, i lost my virginity to my cousin, and just a few days ago, i got baked with some friends and i went home and was laying in my bed and just thought about my life and what have i done with it, and the topic came up in my head and it dawned on me that i lost my ... (305 words)

I want to make some positive changes in my life but I don't seem to be making any progress

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I cant help but feel like I've dug myself into a bit of a hole over the years. For a while now, I've been wanting to make some positive changes in my life to get myself out of it, but I just don't seem to get anywhere. I find myself drift in and out of the motivating, positive ... (546 words)

Is it cowardice to rather die in a dream than live in reality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it cowardice to rather die in a dream than live in reality? In a dream you choose to be and do exactly how you wish things to be, while in reality you're forced to accept the hand that is dealt and make it work. Is it cowardice to escape the never ending gloomy reality ... (70 words)

Toxic coworker: do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Not sure if this is the type of question to post on here but I am at a bit of a loss as to what to do. I am approaching 30 and am working in Finance. I have a very cushy job and not much is ever asked of me. In saying that I have always been driven, and have always strived t... (498 words)

Do you think my co-worker will ever ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - theres this guy I like at my job,im new there well since ive been there he been nothing but xtra nice to me, he'll ask me how my day is going,always smiling at me...he'lol wait for me to get off work if we get off at the same time and ride the elevetor with me....he makes small ... (688 words)

If he is who he says he is then I'm definitely interested

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a smart, successful, attractive woman in my 30s, and, even though I have very progressive, healthy attitudes towards dating and sex, I can't help but feel a bit like an idiot. I went out with a man I met online last weekend who was new to the area. We hit it off over wine, ... (956 words)

Messages on his phone were at a minimum disrespectful, possibly much worse

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I noticed my boyfriend of over 3 years was really touchy about me using his phone yesterday. He didn't seem to want me around it. I decided to take a look at his messages while he gave me the phone to use to look up something. I discovered text messages from him to his guy ... (556 words)

I think I'm dating a jerk!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I'm dating a jerk - but maybe it's just me? We go to dinner on the one year anniversary of our first date (not the one year anniversary of the relationship) and he asks me to split it with him because he lost his ATM card and didn't have a lot of cash. That was 3... (232 words)

Ex is telling embarrassing personal details!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

24 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex from 5 years started telling people about 2 years ago some very personal information of mine. Why he is doing this I don't know but I am horrified to the point where I can't stop thinking about it. We have had no contact now for years and I wish I had never met him. I... (135 words)