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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I work with him, like him and don't know what his intentions are

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - This might be kinda lengthy, sorry. So I'm 17 and I just started working a job at a restaurant as a hostess like 2 months ago and i work with this really cute boy who's 23. So it's pretty clear that he flirts with me, when he first met me he said my eyes are pretty, and he p... (219 words)

I love him but he's trying to change me. Do I give up the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I Will Try And Simplify My Problem, Really Hope You Can Help. I am originally a Muslim girl but really deep in my heart I am (a deist-theist-agnostic)whatever you wanna call me I am not really bothered, all I know is that I believe in god but not religions... (1109 words)

It's like we have nothing interesting to talk about even though I know we do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like me and my boyfriend aren't communicating as much and aren't as connected like we used to be. He's been off with me lately and I always think the worst of things which I hate but I really want things to work between us and I don't like the way things are at the ... (116 words)

My friend forced me to makeout, how do I get over this guilt? I can't tell my boyfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help Recently I made a dumb impulsive decision to let a friend of mine drop me off in his car. His shocking colors came to picture when he insisted to kiss me and makeout. I refused for making out but he started insisting and wouldnt drop me off so I let him kiss me ... (226 words)

Can you ever move on from a abusive relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I ever move on from being in a abusive relationship? Will I ever really, 100% trust another man again? I haven't started to date yet, since getting out of the relationship, but the thought scares me, as my ex seemed perfect and charming at he beginning, I don't want ... (126 words)

My ex now works in my workplace, I want to ask her on a date to see if things can click again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Around 2 and a half months ago I broke up with my girlfriend. To be more precise she broke up with me. We dated for around 4 months and it was a good relationship; she would tell me during it that she loved me and I told her the same back. It was a very nice relationshi... (576 words)

Should I tell my friend about my personal life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my friend who is a boy got drunk one night and ended up having sex, losing our virginities. We agreed to not tell anyone because if we ever told anyone about any of our other sexual encounters in the past it always ended up in fights. However I'm feeling really bad abou... (128 words)

I am lost. I need advice on this proposed separation, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old woman who was married for 14 years with 2 lovely boys. About 3 months after separating I met a man, and our relationship started off slowly, but within a year it was apparent that we both cared for each other deeply-and still do nearly 5 years later. Over the ... (297 words)

I'm not speaking to him because he chose his hobby over me after being away for a weekend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need a little advice from the neutral side. My boyfriend(we´ve been together for 2years) was away for a weekend because of work and I really missed him and was looking forward to see him on monday(we don´t live together). But on monday he told me he didn´t want to meet ... (205 words)

Cyber sex gone wrong!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - dear users recently i made the stupid mistake of delving into the cyber sex cam world on skype. i had been talking to this girl for a while and it kind of got to what youd call online friends with benefits we ended up camming, and im sure you can guess why. anyways 30 se... (154 words)

I want a career that I enjoy but doesn't require years of schooling

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currentlly attending college for radioailgy. I love the medical field but I really hate science and math so im considering changing my major. I also love criminal justice, or something in the psychology field, but Im really stumped, I dont know which career is right for ... (85 words)

I'm a teen mom stuck in a horrible relationship and I think I could be pregnant again just 10 months after the first baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So basically I'm gonna try to make this short . I had a baby 10 months ago, I was 17 . The father of the baby he seemed to change (started being responsible, save money for our life together..etc) Now, everythings messed up again he's slightly becoming worst than he ever was... (273 words)

Thoughts on writing to your ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a good idea to write a letter to your ex? I've been doing the no contact rule, but it has been really hard. I've been thinking about writing a letter to let her know how I feel and how much I am hurting. Will I be making a fool of myself by doing this? She is already ... (95 words)

How do I encourage her to initiate sex once in a while and to pay me the attention every now and again that I pay her every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been seeing a girl for a few months and it is starting to go really well. At first she had seemed distant and unwilling to be in a relationship. We had a big argument early on when she flipped out at me one morning for seemingly no reason. Later we spoke and she said... (768 words)

My boyfriend's dad fancies me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I first met my boyfriend's dad when i was 14, i didn't give much attention to him, but he stared at me even then but not as much when i turned 15.. he tries to touch my shoulder a lot and even my breast, he constantly stares at my ass and flirts with me. when we're alon... (118 words)

I have yellow nails from my parent's smoking!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Both my parents smoke (roughly 5-a-day each). They smoke outside or in the porch with the door open. Recently I have noticed I hav been getting yellow nails no one else has at home because I have the longest nails. I don't smoke! What can I do to cover/prevent this? (Nai... (64 words)

Has anyone's ex come back after they've appeared to have moved on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - has anyone's ex come back after they've appeared to have moved on? kinda like "if its meant to be it will be" type thing? my ex jumped into another relationship only a couple months after he walked away from our relationship. we were very serious and i really don't believe he... (79 words)

Is it wrong that I only want to be with an uncircumcised man?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that this is a pretty touchy subject for some people, so I'm hoping that my question doesn't upset anyone. I'm 23 and I have had sex with one person--my ex-boyfriend, who I dated for a year and broke up with a few months ago. Our sex life was okay, but I always fel... (262 words)

Boyfriend and I no longer have sex because he's taking of things himself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I've never had a problem like this. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 10 months. We used to have sex all the time and it used to be great! But now we hardley ever have sex. And when we do its kind of boring. He jacks off more then we have sex and when we do have ... (134 words)

I've went into a major depression after seeing my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I ran into my ex for the first time in 2 months. I haven't contacted her, nor have I text her or check her FB. I saw her at a festival; and she came over to me. I gave her a hug and asked her about work, then I walked away. The fact that I saw her brought back memories, then ... (233 words)

I don't want to live together without a commitment, but he has a deadline to buy a place

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We are both 29 year old. We both currently live with family in order to save up money as well. He is actually looking to purchase a home within the next year or so due to certain circumstances (long story but he ... (614 words)

How do I get the drunk to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

8 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I Am DONE but he won't leave! He is rude and had a drinking problem! Mean to family and friends!! When sober totally different, I cannot take it anymore. How do I get him to leave?... (36 words)