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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend wants to add his boss' girlfriend on facebook.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice so I don't turn this into an argument between my bf and I. We've been together for 3 years. We're both in our early 30's. We don't live together but do spend weekends together and any days during the week if we can find time (which doesn't happen often). ... (493 words)

How does one turn their emotions off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do people keep from letting their heartache effect them? Better yet, how do people NOT have heartache? I know alot of scientist types... and I love their logic and how organized they are compared to me, but the thing I envy the most is how they are able to just ignore t... (255 words)

Very devastated that my boyfriend looked at gay porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we live together. I love him and trust him. Though, I noticed our computer has been running slow. I did an antivirus run and I found a virus on the computer. I wondered where it came from. So, I looked into the history of ... (126 words)

What's a girl to do? No job with a boyfriend and his two kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a 2 year relationship. Three months after becoming an official couple my bf found out his ex was 7 months pregnant 7 months since they had broken up. He was pretty sure it was not his child and he says his ex had not spoken to him about it but once he saw her and ... (441 words)

My son is asking questions about his absent father, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My son, who is 5 years old, has started asking about his dad, and wants to see him. Thing is when the relationship ended, it ended really really badly. He hasn't seen his son for a long time, when he left he made the decision to walk out on me AND our son. He was really horr... (107 words)

Her pride might get in the way of our dream vacation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, now. Our dream, as a couple is to go to Las Vegas but living in Brazil makes the trip harder, mostly because of the high price of flying there. Earlier this year, I took part in a Work and Travel program in the United St... (342 words)

I can't help thinking I'm doing exactly what I should not be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a man on and off for a year, all while he was still living with his ex-girlfriend for financial reasons. I was not comfortable or OK with that situation so, even though we became very close, we stopped seeing one another and he got back together with his ex. A fe... (256 words)

Can guys look past this hair I have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

18 October 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I have a strange question. I am a girl and have hair in irregular sopts on my body (lower back, butt, and stomach). Ive went to the doctor and she said that there is no was to get rid of all of it. Im taking birth controll hoping that will help with my hormone imbalace and ... (133 words)

I think that fact that I want to stray is telling me something about my current relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

18 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma here and not sure what to do? I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and I thought that everything was great. But, recently my ex girlfriend got in touch with me. Me and my ex dated nearly 6 years ago for only a month and I wouldn't ... (421 words)

Do I struggle to stay and finish my course and graduate with my friends or do I take a year off? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious honest advice, i'm having to make the biggest decision and I'm stuck. My whole life plan has been ruined by something major and I didn't prepare myself for the outcome of changing plans. I had an accident over summer which meant I had to have surgery, un... (471 words)

New girlfriend is friends with recent lovers. Feels bad to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

18 October 2013 (M)

age - New relationship-about 5 weeks. We are both in our 40s. Recently, she went out with an ex-BF who she briefly dated, but didn't work out, but continued sleeping with, most recently a few weeks before she and I met. She told me after the fact that she did this. Turns out that s... (495 words)

He ended it, he text again.. Can anyone tell me what is happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

- I met this guy 6 weeks ago while I was on a hen. Im from Ireland hes from London. We totally clicked!! Anyway, long story short we spoke everyday for 4 weeks and then he came to stay with me for a weekend. It was amazing, until the Saturday night I got really drunk, got ... (282 words)

I've changed after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - first of all im sorry this may be long.. okay so i broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 months ago and we was together for 18 months she was my first for everything and since the break up i have been saying to girls i like them and meeting up with the girls i have been talkin... (141 words)

Is this classed as cheating..has he learned his lesson?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

18 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some peoples advice on a situation because I feel myself going crazy! I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years, all was going great up until summer of last year... I noticed he started acting really strange at the end of summer last year, started ... (640 words)

I feel like she's trying to come between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship (2hrs drive away) not that far but I can't see him as much as I wanted. I am pretty certain that one of his female colleague whom I also know, likes him. We use to work together, even when I was there, she would flirt with ... (181 words)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be friends with his ex girlfriend who hurt him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all, I could really use some help and opinions on my situation. My boyfriend who I've been with for about 4 months now is still friends with his ex-girlfriend who he was with for about 2 years. They broke up about a year ago. She cheated on him and eventually le... (419 words)

Before this relationship I was confident and secure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. She has had a lot of unhealthy tendencies that have reared their head in our relationship since I am her first significant relationship and she is realizing some of her unhealthy behavior patterns. One of them is that she used ... (210 words)

I´d like to have an oppinion on this guilt manipulation that I am sure about.Thanks.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age - 10 years of marriage and I always though my husband was the most amazing,wonderful, caring, and fair person on the face of this planet. I see know how blind I was,but in a way I was happy. For 4 years now I am dealing with depression because I lost my job and was trying to get ... (485 words)

In love with my married best friend, should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in a bit of a pickle. To be brief, I fell in love with my best friend. He is a married man with two children, he is in love with me too and we had an emotional affair. Nothing physical has happened between us. We are just agreeing to be best friends, I don't want to ... (173 words)

Anyone else hate their husband's best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is driving me crazy does anyone else hate there husbands or bfs best friend? I do and it sucks cause were stuck living with him only plus side is i love his gf. I need advice on how to deal with this. Were stuck living with him till we can get our house and we just mov... (162 words)