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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

At first all was well in our marriage, but now I'm a lonely, lost lady as I have to be and do what he thinks is the best for the marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunty. I'm a young lady who is in late 20's and I got married at the age of 20 as a second wife to my husband who is 13 years older than me. At the beggining all was well but now I fell lonely as I have to be and do ... (194 words)

Was this some sort of revenge for breaking up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday an ex-lover sent me a text message and I simply replied. Then he called me and we began to have a conversation about our past. My ex finally gave me a chance to explain my side of the story about how we ended up going our separate ways. I never cheated on him. I was ... (217 words)

Why am I so nervous that he wont like how I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a nervous wreck. I met this man in my work uniform, we hit it off. I am a chunky girl. He went away for about six months and we kept contact. He is back in the states, and wants to see me. Why am I so nervous that he wont like how I look? He seen me in my not so flattering ... (163 words)

After five years is asking for a commitment too much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financial problems. We have been together... (177 words)

Will he become a stalker? Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I am going through some changes with a man and was hoping to get some good advice. I don’t know if I should be concerned or what??? I met him at work. We don’t work in the same department but our departments cross every now and then. In the past we spoke casually... (893 words)

I feel like being with him just makes life harder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, It's me again. I feel at my wits end! My husband still has no job. I feel like I am in this marriage by myself! Relationships are supposed to help your life, not make it harder. I feel like being with him makes my life much harder. I get no help, He barely pays attention ... (90 words)

I value her as a friend, but ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm really not sure how to proceed with a girl I've been hanging out with who I am very attracted to. She basically has a boyfriend whom she got back together with at the same time I began seeing her. So initially I was set on dating her and we have shared a kiss with me ... (255 words)

The relationship is great -- except for his psycho ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very much in love with this man and we are engaged to be married in a year. He treats me wonderfully and we are best friends. The only issue is the mother of his child hates that we are together and has drawn a wedge between us. She is violent and verbally abusive towards ... (386 words)

He choses making music over making out with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had this talk previously; basically it comes down to his obsession with music. He has an obsessive hobby with making beats and music and it used to be much worse. He actually dropped out of school because he was so mentally caught up in it. Now, he is ... (386 words)

She ditched me to hang out with her ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Its been a long time since I wrote to you (I apologize), and now I am here again asking for help for more of my girl problems. In advance, I apologize for any grammar errors or fallacies since my english writing is not that great. Well to start by givi... (436 words)

My mind is on overload and I am going crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello aunts and uncle's I really need some advice here and fast before I go nuts. I have been with my BF for 7 months now and I am so in love with him, and he tells me he feels the same. we moved in together and everything is going great except for two things. 1) he ... (551 words)

Do cheaters ever change?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age - I've just met a Man and during a conversation we were having he explained that he had been in 2 marriages and 1 8 year defacto relationship. He continued to say he had been unfaithful with 2 women, 1, his first wife and 2 a short term relationship. He said he has changed ... (91 words)

FWB guys says that I'm not intellectually compatible with him. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently in FWB with my best friend for a year. We know each other for long and i love him a lot, he does too. But he is not making our relationship official as he says he is not into relationship stuff. He is not seeing anyone i.e. not cheating on me, i know that for ... (176 words)

LDR isn't working for me. Is it wrong that I want my b/f to come back to where I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend and I studied In the same university for 5 years but we dint know each other until the last month and when we got to know each other there was no stopping to us,but it was the end of semester and my boyfriend had to go back to his city which means an LDR I th... (125 words)

Do I chase my dream or give it up for my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there...i had posted a question about my boyfriend getting depressed since he didn't get placed and all..my dream company will be hiring freshers from my campus next week and I was dying for them to come..now my bf is asking me not to attend the drive since he is not ... (106 words)

Are girls turned off by an ugly penis??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to masturbate very much, and this caused my penis to have some dark spots on it. Because Iam tan, it appeared that the spots are post inflammatory hyperpigmentaion. Iam virgin, but had oral sex couples times before it happened. My question is are girls turned off by ... (57 words)

My ex wouldn't interact with my friends but now he is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all I recently broke up with my bf. One of the reasons was because he never wanted to interact with my friends or introduce me to his family. Personally I feel that if a couple got together, there shouldn't be anything to hide. Furthermore, we were together for more than ... (181 words)

Why are thinner girls targeted more for what they wear, regardless of the temperature?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4053 days ago

17 October 2013 (?) age 22-25 - Okay, so sometimes skinnier girls are shamed and teased for wearing not very revealing stuff. Where i live it is really hot, so i dont think this makes sense. i mean, if shes in a bikini or something super revealing, i can see the fuss! But i mean, im told that a long t shirt ... (136 words)

How to deal with regret over not seeing my grandmother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my nan passed away out of the blue, yesterday. I haven't seen her in a while, with doing full time study and being pregnant. I didn't get to show her my scan photos or anything. Her passing is a shock. I have fond memories of staying over at her house as kids. Feel ... (57 words)

The man I secretly love finally made out with me while drunk but doesn't remember it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

17 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Being the only Asian girl in a small Midwestern town, I got picked on a lot while I was growing up. It didn’t help that I was small, mousy-looking and extremely shy. I also had a bad case of buck teeth and had to wear these huge, hideous looking glasses that I really hated. The ... (1572 words)