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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this an early indicator that the relationship isn't going to go anywhere?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering what people think of this theory? I have noticed that anyone I've dated in the past will never get past the dating phase when they never use your name in texts, conversations, anything, even if they do pay all sorts of compliments. Has anyone else noti... (57 words)

My ex named his daughter after me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I got a txt of my ex of over 4 years, who ismarried for two years Now, he told me he Christened his daughter after me, what does this mean? Why does he need to tell me this after all theses years? ... (46 words)

All I want is to feel desired and appreciated, the way I make her feel

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a bit of a problem with my girlfriend. I feel really under appreciated and unimportant. She cancels plans last minute and when I get upset and express it, she makes me feel needy and stupid for caring. So then I hold it in, which makes me feel even worse. It's a ... (275 words)

I don't want to make a scene but I think he's being rude

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in somewhat of a long distance relationship for the past 2 years since I only see my boyfriend every weekend (we live an hour away). We talk to each other almost every night via facetime so we can see each other. He used to always be on his bed while calling me but ... (167 words)

Unwanted attraction to my b/f's friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been going out with my boyfriend who I love very much for about six months. I am so in love with him and can't imagine being with anyone else but him. I have had this problem lately and it is tearing me up that I could even have a sexual attraction to my boyfriend's ... (295 words)

Why do I always get let down!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am I always so stupid! I started talking to a guy online in April of this year. To begin with I just took it as a bit of fun, nothing serious. As time went on I started to really like him and looked forward to his emails and spoke on the phone a few times. We liv... (348 words)

When a guy says he wont get married as it's just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a losing battle?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is for the guys on here if you don't mind helping. When a guy says he wont get married as its just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a loosing battle? I love him so much and I know he loves me too,... (175 words)

I love him, but seem much more affectionate than he is. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a very affectionate, outgoing person. I like texting people saying goodmorning and goodnight, asking people how their day is, wishing them well. I do it to close family members and my boyfriend. Because of my job, I work and live several hours from them (though I go home as ... (282 words)

I have a crush on best friend's hot roommate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My buddy recently got a new roommate, who just happens to be a really sexy, intelligent, funny girl, who does awesome shit like make pancakes and watches all my favorite movies. It's very hard not to be attracted to her. He went out and left us alone together for the first time ... (156 words)

Red flag or not? He has an inordinate number of 20-30 yo beautiful girls as friends on FB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age - Is this a red flag or nothing at all? I found a college friend on Facebook. He's 57 and I'm 52. Looks as if by his profile he's a nice normal guy. Loves animals. Not a million pictures of himself. Nor a million 'friends'. Posts insightful things. We spoke on the phone a f... (263 words)

Dating advice needed: does she love me as I hoped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl i've feelings for a long time we've been friends. We do chat well and have nice times together. She laughs nearly to all my jokes. She confides in most of her life story. I decided to take this girl for a date. I ask her out and she accepted to go on a date ... (589 words)

Cute girl at the smoothie shop, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So for a while now I've been going to this smoothie place every sunday since its the only day I really have time to relax. Theres this oncredibly cute girl there who all of a sudden started giving me huge discounts on all my drinks. When I try n talk to her she gets nervous and ... (189 words)

I just need to feel heard and loved without it being the lead up to sex sometimes. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I'm looking for an outside perspective on my relationship with my boyfriend please? We have been together for 4 years but due to the fact he works evenings and I work 9-5 we can only see each other twice a week max for a couple of hours at a time. Howeve... (599 words)

I think my married friend that I work with is attracted to me and I don't feel the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend whom Ive known for about three years. He is 35 I am 45. We are also now work colleagues although I only work at the same place one day per week. He introduced me there by asking his boss to let me cover for him whilst he was posted abroad and they were so ... (568 words)

Do I ask my friend out now that she's told me she's a lesbian too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on what to do. My friend has recently told me shes a lesbian, I am too and she told me she already knew that. I could not tell if she had been flirting with me for the past few months, my chances are better now I know she is a lesbian after all! We are both ... (154 words)

My ex-bf's girlfriend walks around in her underwear around me and my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I need some advice on what to do. I'm going to try and keep this short. I met this guy, we'll call him joe. Met him, dated a month. When he kept pressuring me for sex I still said no, he got tired of waiting for me and broke up. Fast forward 2 months. One of his friends ... (246 words)

A FWB and I think he is too involved. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started having sex with one of my friends but I feel like he might think of it as something more than I do, and I really can't bear the thought of hurting him. We were drunk the other week and we ended up having sex. It was weird because I'd never thought of him... (452 words)

Boyfriend is picking his friends over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little hurt the guy I've been dating for the past 8 months won't pick me up from the airport. I didn't ask him to drive or pick me up. I've made other arrangements with a friend to do that. She's a good friend I've known for years and I knew she wouldn't mind do... (220 words)

Help with a girl? is she using me? will she love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay here is the deal with me and this girl that i have very strong feelings for, we have been talking for a few weeks, she invited me to stay the weekend with her, i did and we got drunk had amazing sex one night and then the next night, she then proceded to tell me that she ... (119 words)

My boyfriend can be really rude when he's stressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating since last august. I noticed that about a few months ago, he started to take his stress out on me in a very hurtful way. Basically whenever he is stressed out, he is just not very loving and is rude to me. He ALWAYS apologizes after and says ... (443 words)

Continue to be on break or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. For the past 3 months we live an hour away from each other. I see him once a week just on the weekends. before his parents moved we lived under a minute away. We are both in our twentys and we decided to work for a ... (449 words)

How to include infirm grandparents in our big day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4078 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé and I don't have much money and instead of a big wedding we are planning on semi eloping. There is an officiant who will marry us in her home for a small fee. The only catch is we can only invite four people. We plan on having lunch at a restaurant nearby to invite ... (234 words)

Contact -- yes or no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I liked this girl a lot. This was my first relationship (or pseudo). During our time together (4 months), I was the one who more often initiated the conversations, was completely honest about everything. She seemed to me an honest girl herself. We used to text all the tim... (273 words)

Should I trust my friend's judgement and possibly skip some heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I like this guy at my college who's into music and stuff,but I've been way too nervous to talk to him. I told a friend of mine (who he happens to hang out with)that I liked him, and I joked that she should give him a hint that someone likes him. She is completely ... (270 words)

Is it OK to go on dates with more than one guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear agonyaunts, I am 27 and most friends my age are either married or in stable relationships. I have had two unsuccessful long-distance relationships and I am seriously trying to find a guy who is a good match and is worth sharing a life with. Looking into the past,... (389 words)