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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I have an affair with my married colleague?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently ended up kissing a women I work with after a night out. It shouldn't be a problem, only she is married. We have always had great chemistry and she has made no secret of her liking me--I guess you could say she is a cougar or whatever. She is 39 and looks fantastic, ... (382 words)

AM I silly for trusting him and giving it a go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I posted last year about my child's father putting his number up on an escorting agency after us doing something rather shameful the two of us sellin ourselves. I know it was two years ago now but I still think back to why he would put his number up on there and it ... (259 words)

Is it practical to be with someone you love but constantly arguing over money? The 'married' to a poor man dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a steady relationship that we both have assumed each other as husband and wife despite not registering for a civil marriage yet. I love him very much and we've been together for many years. He has made it clear that he doesn't want marriage in the near future and might ... (228 words)

Should I mention to the counselor in front of him about this other man or should I keep it quiet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts. Three years ago, my now husband were dating and my visa was running out so we decided after a year of dating that we'd get married. We didn't want to be apart, and you know the immigration laws in the US aren't exactly happy-la-la-land and that's why we decided t... (1411 words)

I'm devastated over this breakup and over being used!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age - I’m so heartbroken right now…I need advice on how to get over this woman. I wound up being in a love triangle which has driven me into therapy but I need some additional advice, criticism, feedback…whatever it is…I just need to hear it. I met this woman online in February 2013 ... (1311 words)

Why do people let facebook ruin their relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about Facebook, and that is why do so many people let it run their relationships? I'm not just talking about significant others, either. They let it affect their relationships with family as well. I know my family has, at least. A month or so ago, my cousin ... (321 words)

Should I date a guy who is 9 years younger than me? I'm 28 and he's 19

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 28 years old and newly single, i'd rather stay single for a while to be honest but someones interested in me. The problem.is hes only 19 that is way too young for me but my friend doean't think so. I dont feel comfortable about that age gap but I'd like yo know what ... (61 words)

Should I be worried that my boyfriend doesn't want or need sex every night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that my boyfriend and I just recently. Intimate. He loves to kiss and cuddle with me and he loves so much to do oral on me.. but that's as far as it goes. He says he's just a guy who doesn't need to have sex every night that pleasing me satifies him completely. ... (77 words)

How can I ignore an ex boyfriend that I work with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i ignore an ex boyfriend!!! We only dated for a few months, but i cant get him out of my head. I found out he was cheating on me and he was texting alot of other girls too, so i dumped him. But he keeps contacting me all the time for 'one thing' basically, and i keep g... (128 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like to have the light on during sex. Is he fantasizing about someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend doesn't like to have the light on during sex. He prefers to turn it off and leave another room on so you can see a little but it's still dark. Does that mean that he's fantasizing about someone else during sex? I'm not self conscious about my body and nor is he. ... (63 words)

If you tell your lover what you need and they don't even make an effort to hear you is it time to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 3 years is not demonstrative about his feelings for me. I like getting the occasional text or phone call, especially when I am ill or he knows I am having a tough time. I have tried calmly telling him how I feel. That intimacy to me is really important for me... (224 words)

Men, porn and lies… feeling let down right now!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I found out my boyfriend still had a collection of porn and naked celeb photos - he told me he had deleted any porn and only looked at my pics. He is a good guy so I feel so sad he has lied to me. Why would he do that? He said doesn't need anyone else he loves me so ... (121 words)

Why does my fiancée get irritated with me about small things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone I am about to be married in a month. My fiance is a very loving and caring girl who is very dedicated in love. That being said, I am noticing a sense of irritation in her in certain situations, irritation that has taken me a lot by surprise. To explain, I h... (456 words)

How can I learn to keep dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Helo aunts and uncles, i just want to ask a question: how do i learn to keep to dates? I find it difficult always to keep to dates and its really affectin my relationship with others. I've lost most of my friends becos i barely bring myself to hang out wit or even visit them. ... (104 words)

He says he has "proof" even when he doesn't. Need help, fast!!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We're in our early-mid 30's. Every once in awhile he will accuse me of cheating and claiming he has "proof" when I know he doesn't. This morning at 7am he text me and asked me who the hell I was texting. I replied back that I had no idea ... (347 words)

He says his sub character came out and started chatting to his son's girlfriend! Does he have mental issues?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - ive come accross something that i dont understand, maybe someone who is good and understands phsycology might be able to put some undertsanding to this type of beahviour. Will try and be as brief as i can, im left completley confused so here it is: Ive been in a relationshi... (769 words)

I'm confused about my education and life choices!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - so i moved to Leeds about a year ago to live with my dad and his gf, a year later i hate living ere the only reason that im staying here is cause im in my final year of college and i have met new friends and met my girlfriend as well. I want to live back with my mum which is ... (253 words)

I don't understand why he would act like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Now this is a very aching story in my life. It is a 1 -year story so Its going to be a bit long, sorry for that. Please help me, give me some advise, cuz I really don't know what I did. Why they started hating me!! ?? I lost a friend (a brother). He decided to delete me from ... (889 words)

I'm in love with her but I'm afraid she'll find someone else when she's in college!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. This is pretty long and I do apologize but time is running out and I need guidance. No judgments, I already get enough of that from my old man. I'm 23 years old, desperate, and have been in love with my neighbor (who is a 23 year old woman) since we were 10. Yeah, ... (914 words)

I don't know if he likes me since we text and I can't see his body language!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I like this guy but I rarely see him so idk how to tell if he likes me. Usually we only talk through text messages so I cant really look for body language. How do I know if he likes me without directly asking him?... (46 words)

Do I wait and see what happens? or ask him how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Im 17 and I really like this guy whos almostb19. He knows that I like him and I know for sure that he likes me as a friend. When I told him how I felt I asked if we coild ever go further and he said that he didnt see why not. After that neither of us have brought up anything ... (94 words)

Will we get stared at or ridiculed? We are a biracial couple

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. My name is Jeff, and I have a question that may come off as odd. I've met this beautiful white woman, and she told me she would like to go out on a date with me. As I am black, I have always wondered how it would be like to date a white woman. Problem is, I'm afra... (88 words)

Do men really think about sex every 7 seconds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ladies, just have a question... I have heard so many times that men think about sex every 7 seconds. Is this an exaggeration? Also, a second question I have is, I think about sex all the time even though I don't get much pleasure out of it. I think about it like all the ... (100 words)