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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm in love with her, but I can tell she's skittish about it. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I’ve recently fallen for a beautiful woman. Every single bit my type with all of my strengths and flaws. I asked her for her number today and she gave it to me. When I tried to make plans she was hesitant and we never ended up making a solid date. This however is far ... (251 words)

Should I tell her that he's a cheater, or just leave their relationship alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - what would you do if you had a friend who married someone twice her age, got pregnant, had the baby, got married to the guy, got pregnant two months after the baby was born, and see that the guy has liked a page on his facebook called add me adult entertainment, and it has all ... (187 words)

How can I confront my mother-in-law without hurting her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now with 3 beautiful children, he is the only son and he's 34 years old. His mom is 54 years old and she still treats him like he's 15 and she's still trying to control him and make decisions for him. We have talked to her ... (605 words)

He spends more time online and in chat rooms than with me - what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm on the verge of tears, I have no idea what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and soul, but lately he's become so enamored with this virtual chat game called IMVU. He spends more time on that game then he does with me, almost as if it's ... (111 words)

Does the feeling of love change as you get older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi :) this is kinda aimed at people in there mid 20's. im nearly 22, i have been in a few long relationships. been single for a while now. does love feel different as you get older? i have dated a few guys but it doesnt seem the same as intense as previous relationships. is ... (82 words)

He cheated on me - is this worth fixing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm in need of help. I started dating this man in sept. 2011 and we dated a year and got engaged October. 2012, moved in with him, things have been going great, was thinking i found a good man, then surprise I got into his email cause his ex came by and told me "he ... (195 words)

Should I stop the jealous rage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Im in a relationship with a man who has been in a twenty yr relationship ...When we first met he told me about her. I am 43 and he is 65 yrs of age.Besides the fact of the relationship he is in.. He treats me so kind.. upmost respect ..supports me ..buys me whatever I want ,, ... (367 words)

I blew him off, now I want him.. what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 21 years old and I have the most typical high school kind of crush on this guy. The crush situation is generally simple.. but I want to explain why my situation is a little more complicated and why I need help. I'll try to make this short, but get my point across.... (451 words)

I love my boyfriend for his personality but the FWB for the way he makes me feel attractive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, My boyfriend threatened to leave because of several issues, im not sure what to do, i dont want to upset anyone. I was building a relationship with a guy for a little while and then he said that he cheated several times in previous relationships. i decide... (676 words)

No love after dirty talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel I have to explain this first part for the story to make sense. Growing up, I was very sheltered from anything sex. Never spoken about, if someone as much as kissed on tv, it was turned and the my mom would go "eww that's disgusting, why would you want to clean ... (744 words)

We aren't really together nor broken up.. Need advice please!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (of 3 years) and I just... broke up?? I'll explain why that's questionable. We didn't live together but spent weekends together and a couple days during the week when our work schedules allowed. We had a serious relationship where we'd talked about marriage and ... (443 words)

How do I handle these obnoxious co-workers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How should I handle these girls? I hate them? So I got a new job a few months ago and the girls there are horrible. They are very unfriendly and don't speak to me so I don't bother with them either. They are 3 girls and whenever they walk past me Always hear them... (169 words)

What to do to get her back or to forget her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i need tip to get her back or to forget her? When i was in highschool i met this girl and we become friends instantly after some time i fell in love with her. But since i was leaving town after that year i just suppressed my feelings. But even After i left town we were very clo... (276 words)

How can I regain my body confidence and make my husband find me sexy again after giving birth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my husband for 5 years and we have a 13 week old daughter together. I have a real big problem with sex since I've had my daughter I feel disgusting and so ugly! I've lost the baby weight but my stomach looks gross saggy, stretchmarked and my breasts are smaller. ... (286 words)

Earned my degrees and now have to figure out how much my boyfriend influences where I work and live

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It was a few months into our relationship that my world got turned upside down, with the sudden death of both my parents in a car wreck. My boyfriend was the first person I called when I found out, and he came straight over to collect me from my dorm, until I went home the ... (1528 words)

He's been depressed and gone off sex and I'm secretly glad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. It took us a while to finally get together in a relationship so I was ecstatic when we did. We've had the most amazing 2 years. We regularly go on city breaks together and do lots of things. I've also been dealing ... (261 words)

Am I being paranoid? Or do I have reason to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I tried to post this yesterday but I'm not sure if it's because I posted it anonymously that it didn't get through? My boyfriend and I have just celebrated our 4 year anniversary. From my point of view we have been mostly happy, aside from a 3 week break we had when we'd be... (520 words)

He doesn't want people to know about us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - He has told his two best friends about me, but that's it. His other friends don't even know I exist. I haven't met any of his friends except his two best friends (and only then because we were classmates). My friends knew about us but after he said he didn't trust one of my ... (301 words)

Its a wonderful opportunity for her, but what about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been seeing my current girlfriend for a little over a year now. we have an absolutely wonderful and loving relationship. she's my best friend. with all of that being said, she has informed me that more than likely, she's going to spend 8 months in saudi, from december un... (221 words)

Suffering erectile dysfunction. Would it be wrong to encourage my wife to take lovers?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (M)

age - I become unable to perform with a full erection. My wife thinks that I no longer want her and am gay or at least bi-sexual.I get very excited thinking about and talking about her having a sexual encounter with another man. She is using topical testosterone on the clitoris and ... (73 words)

Do women really want on FWB relationships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age - someone just told me the new "in" thing was fwb. The lady i was talking to said even women wanted this now. Why? is because men were I think she meant men were not that nice. I know per my recent post I think I have become that..but i do not want that and the guy i am as ... (120 words)

I know which one I want, but I cant tell him to leave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - the love of my life, 'mike' and i have been together on and off for 3 years. over the times we've broken up i've been with other people, but it was always short lived and we always have stayed in touch. when we broke up the first time he went home to the east coast, im on the ... (221 words)

Why does my boyfriend still want to be friends with his ex...and could he still have feelings for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

3 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend has told me that the break up with his ex girlfriend who cheated still hurts him a lot. (It's been a year since they broke up). Could this mean he's still not over his ex? or is it just that he's not over the hurt it caused him? They were in a... (183 words)