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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do some women like being someones bit on the side?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

29 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Do some women like being a man's bit on the side? the reason why I ask this is because I have noticed this girl at work in this situation. She is single but she has started seeing this guy whose in a long term relationship living with his girl friend.Its none of my business and ... (331 words)

My child's father suddenly wants to play a bigger role in her life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a child with my ex, she is 3, and I have raised her completely on my own with a little help from my family and her father's sister. I never asked her father to stick around me, but I practical begged him to play a part in his daughter's life, but apart from birthday's ... (333 words)

Co worker goes from friend to just a co worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I work at a school and it pays ok for now. Well I am engaged and there is a male coworker who is married with a baby. We hit it off and became friends at work, so I thought. We both talked a lot during work and texts about games work etc not once ever flirting. To be honest ... (263 words)

Does this man's mother feel I am competition?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am with a man 16 yrs my senior. His mother is in her 80s and is so jealous of our relationship. She gets mad at how much time we spend together. She tells him alot of negative things about me and says he ignores her. I have never heard of this kind of thing before where the ... (105 words)

My jealousy and insecurities are ruining my relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I create drama in my relationship because I'm insecure and jealous. And I'm on the last leg with my boyfriend because he hates being treated like he's done something wrong just because I feel insecure and paranoid. Any advice on how I can get past this? I was humiliated and ... (83 words)

So broken after a fight....Is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 6 months and I got into a huge fight last night. Yesterday I came back from work and school feeling pretty overwhelmed the whole day. I came over to his place thinking that he was really excited to see me because he texted me "come over tonight!!!". When I got ... (431 words)

I need help to get back to where we're happy with one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a bit of a complicated question to ask... There's a man and a woman, and they went to high-school with one another. After they both graduated, the man decides to ask this woman on a date, etc. they start dating and become a solid relationship. About 2 months into th... (1323 words)

It seems like my wife is supportive only when times are good

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - recently I have been in a lot of stress because of work, and I'm kind of depressed, I don't know how long its been like this, and now this is affecting my marriage we fight a lot and sometimes I feel that she is my friend only when everything is ok, now she blames me and says I ... (142 words)

Is this marriage bad enough to justify my leaving?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story, but here goes. I am a 21 year old Indian woman who had an arranged marriage to the (34-y/o)man of my dreams. Or so I thought. To give some background,I am an attractive woman who was very used to getting lots of male attention. Sometimes, it was very vali... (1394 words)

Can you have a serious relationship with a man 7-8 years younger than yourself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What if a man is younger by 7-8 years than the woman , can they give each other a secure relationship? Specially if they purpose it to marry not just time pass . How do a woman know he is really serious to marry inspite of age gap and not taking her or a ride ... (55 words)

Am I a total pervert for being turned on by the idea of a cute boy masturbating to a picture of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Not long ago I had an embarrassing moment at my school where I was wearing a thin black spaghetti strap top with just a thin camisole underneath but no bra when someone conveniently decided to snap a picture and thanks to the flash you could totally see my boobs through my top. ... (191 words)

How can something feel so right yet be so wrong? In love with a married man who loves me too, but also loves his wife and wont leave her.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do... I don't even know how to start. I never been on any of these sites before.. this is also a long story. I met this man at a work place..once I was working there he texted me and would flirt just a little (he had my number because he's the one tha... (892 words)

Has he stopped finding me sexually atrractive? What can I do to improve things in the bedroom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22 and my boyfriends 23 we have been together for four years when we first got together we were having sex all the time but now its like he doesn't want to have sex with me ive tried sexy outfits and he just turns around and says what the point your gonna get naked anyway. ... (106 words)

Should I believe that he wants me for more than just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am from Malaysia. I met a Persian guy online. We talked for few days and he came to meet me up. I kinda like him and we were in love fast, till now its like a month we are together. I dont know him well, yesterday I was asking him about his past and he told me he h... (247 words)

Are we headed for a future break-up? I don't want to lose him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

29 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm needing some serious advice/help with my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends/any times we can find in our work schedules together. Over the last few months things have gotten really rocky. We've started fighting over the st... (537 words)

Should I visit my old workplace again and try again? Or should I forget her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I was working at a company for about 8 months. There was a girl there who came from where I am originally from. When I started working there we had a long chat and she said she would love to talk more and really enjoyed it, but needed to get back to work. We worked in complete... (288 words)