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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girlfriend wants to take a male friend out for dinner - am I wrong to disapprove?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has recently got a new job (through one of her male friends) and now she has said to me that she thinks she will take him out for dinner to say "thank you." I've never met this guy and am not at all happy about this, even the thought of it fills me with je... (261 words)

Advice on getting over an abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I'm in serious need of some help. I'm at a really low point. I'm coming out of an emotionally abusive relationship and I'm really having a hard time. It's only been a few days and I'm already struggling so much. I've always been such an independent person, but some... (430 words)

He wants lust, I want love.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 17 year old girl, when I was 16 I met this guy. He was 19. I met him on a social networking site called "tagged" we talked for a bit and really got to know each other, he use to live in the town that I lived in and I use to live in the town that he lives in. Anyway, the ... (391 words)

I have lost attraction to my wife since she gained a lot of weight.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Hi i have a problem,my wife is fat she has put on weight,I requested, advised her to decrease her weight, but she not taking any step to do it,due to this i am annoyed how shall i tell her that i am not able to manage my sexual intercourse, i don't know how to tell, i had stop... (133 words)

I am bringing bad luck to my boyfriends.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a strange problem and I really hope I can find any answer for it or somebody who is having the same. So, everytime I fall in love and have a relation with some boy, he starts to have so much bad luck (for example lost work, broken laptop, his mom got sick, he cau... (110 words)

Should I stay with him or come to reality and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

- Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. We are going through a bad patch at the moment but I don't want to break up with him because I really love him - if I didn't I would have broken up with him ages ago. I just need some guidance on what to do to sort th... (659 words)

I am 5 months pregnant and I don't trust my boyfriend going to parties getting drunk.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 5 months pregnant and feeling very stressed out. I'm in a relationship with someone I love very much. We have been arguing all week and its starting to really get me down, the main reason we are arguing is this.... Basically on Monday he told me he was invited to his ... (199 words)

Need ideas on birthday present for boyfriend of 2 months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! So I'd like some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and it's his 21st birthday next month and I don't know what to get him. We haven't been together long so I wasn't going to make a deal and get him something ridiculous but he's 21, it's a special ... (85 words)

Have a boyfriend of 4 years but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the long read, I don't know what to do and don't really have anyone to tell this all to. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for 4 years. We're both 23 years old and each other's second serious relationship. But for some reason I just can't stop thinking about ... (852 words)

An incredible night and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid , A few nights ago I met this guy J . A really funny, laid-back, attractive guy [that was staying with a friend of mine ( J's best friend ) for a while]with whom I shared hours of hilarious/ intense conversa... (813 words)

Is this cheating on me? He says he's just making her feel good about herself.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was allowed to see communication between boyfriend and an old colleague. It was sent after we became exclusive. He talked of how hot he still found her and how she still tuirns him on and when they would meet to see where this would lead them. He said lover friend to her. ... (236 words)

Is there any boy lingo in his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy at work who I really like. He is 8 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 26 Every time I see him I get those high school feelings. Stop breathing, butterfly's etc. I do act casual though, I'm not acting weird. Haha. But he's really good looking and I'm...not. ... (76 words)

I have unfounded fears that my boyfriend would get back together with his ex if she wanted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have unfounded fears that my boyfriend would get back together with his ex if she wanted. They only talk via facebook message every few months, conversation seems innocent. Hi how are you kind of stuff. He does look at her page on facebook frequently enough, she had a young ... (382 words)

I really like him but don't know how to approach him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, All I rely need your advice on a person whom I have a sight love. Here is the case, I use to have BF before and he betrayed me since then I do not have BF even when boys ask me to be their lover one I run away from them, the past makes me to run away from boys it's been a... (280 words)

BF says he's Committed but still clubbing. I don't like it. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend sometimes likes to go out without me. I don't get it. I mean, why go to bars and clubs if you are not single? Tonight we were out with his friend and at 2AM he basically told me to go home. (I have work at 8AM anyway) but he wanted "time to talk". But they were goi... (137 words)

I know my fiance loves me but it feels like there is an underlying issue and I don't know what it is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony aunts, I've been dating my fiance now for a year and we've known each other for 5 years. after about 4 months I started to get separation anxiety because the honeymoon phase was slowly ending so the more she got comfortable and stuff the more I worried that the... (291 words)

Is it bad to change my looks to get guys to notice me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to change my looks to get guys to notice me? I'm 19 and a sophomore in college, yet I have never had a boyfriend. I know I'm not the most attractive person out there, but I'm always extremely kind thinking my personality will outdo my looks. Unfortunately no... (592 words)

My girlfriend's angry venomous words are really getting to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend gets mad at me over such petty things and then says awful things to me and breaks up with me. It's a terrible pattern and it's killing me. We are literally great one minute, then the next, out of nowhere, something small and trivial happens, and she blows up... (329 words)

I'm so happy! My b/f of 2.5 years finally said "I love you"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont have a question, just wanted to say that I have written for help many times about my BF of 2 and more than a half years and i thank you all for your time and advice. I waited patiently and he finally he said it ...I LOVE YOU.....woa what a dooozy! I was like a dear in ... (123 words)

Is it just my destiny to be lonely and alone all my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I am going to be single for the rest of my life. My longest relationship was 3 years, but the average is 6-12 months, however I've been single for over 3 years now. I am very shy but even so joined evening classes at college, I also make effort with my appearance when ... (151 words)

Advice for a friend in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

5 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this isn't advice for myself im seeking but for a very good friend, he (26) met a girl (25) on holiday in the summer, they fell for each other instantly and when back in the uk carried on seeing each other, 3months have passed and they are in a relationship and have had ... (255 words)

Guys: Would you have sex with a woman on her period?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

5 October 2013 (?) age 51-59 - What are your opinions on period sex? Especially guys... Would you have sex with a woman on her period? Would you do this only if you were in a relationship with her and care about or love her? Or would you do it with a random woman if you wanted to just have sex with her... (125 words)

Tiny boobs and a wierd vagina

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi please help! One of my labia minora is stretched, saggy and gross! Is there anything I can do and if not is it weird Also my breasts have been stuck at a 32a for a year now what does this mean? (My mother is a c aunty is a d as is cousin does this influence mine?) Basicall... (89 words)