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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think I should have to tell him everything about my life when now hes a friend with benefits ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does a guy I see once a week have any right asking questions about where I go and what I do? ive been seeing someone for a year and it turned very serious very quickly. He moved in within four months but it turned sour pretty quick.I chucked him out when he started staying out ... (200 words)

In love with 2 guys but they both come in and out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really in love with two guys, one I met over a year ago we finishd after two and a half months together, it was real sudden and I don't know what happened one day I just got a text saying we were over im really confused especially as hes still going on to people about how ... (132 words)

Is my negativity taking control? How do I stop being jealous and bitter about my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not so much a question, but more looking for perspective or feedback on what you think the underlying problems are with my life at the minute. I should on the grand scheme of things be content with my life, I am starting a new job next month and am currently unhapp... (674 words)

Do abusers ever leave you alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently just got out of an abusive relationship. My family and friends are fully aware of it and absolutely support my decision and want nothing to do with this man themselves. It has been a few weeks since the break up. I have him blocked on every communication device and ... (173 words)

What can I do about this controlling guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i been with my significant other for 6 years and hes always been the jealous type, always in my business, wanting to know my facebook password, my email password my phone code to unlock my phone etc, doesnt want me to have friends and i have lost friends because his jealous ... (277 words)

Is a friend's ex really off limits forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll just go straight to the question. What is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend. I mean they are no longer together for 2years now. We both want to go for it,i can bet on that but its just as if we should never cross. She has been my best female friend since ... (78 words)

No closure because of the way things ended, and my mother making it worse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, any advice given will be appreciated greatly. I had been with my boyfriend for nearly four years, (four years in December). Most of those years were happy, loving years. However around 10 months ago MY feelings started to change. I just slowly started to look at h... (581 words)

Can he learn from this and remain faithful or am I dealing with a ticking time bomb?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I found nasty texts on my boyfriend's phone to a friend of his about his pursuit of trying to find a woman to have sex with while I was out of town. He found a girl he was interested in while he was at a bar and proceeded to hit on her and relay the details via text back to his ... (675 words)

Haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday, worrying that something's happened to him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably more of a vent-my-feelings post than anything else, but I suppose I'm also looking for reassurance! I'm 22, he's 26, in a serious relationship etc. We're going on holiday together next week and I'm going out of my mind that something terrible has happened... (282 words)

Boyfriend thinks I cheated and I never have. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend of four years thinks that I have betrayed him with infidelity (cheated on him), I did not commit such a act, I'm innocent but he will not listen to the truth, he also wont express his reasons why he is so sure about his accusations. what can I do to show him he is ... (98 words)

Boyfriend's boss gave us a dog and now they want it to visit them and I don't want to do it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I adopted a 2 year old boxer from a couple that had too many dogs and the boxer became aggressive. They begged us to take the dog and we did. They were very thankful and didn't ask us to pay money and even gave us the cage and toys for free. Since then we have ... (226 words)

Am I turning into an old lady by not wanting clubbing every weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in my early twenties, and I don't like hanging out with my friends at clubs. But this is all they do: as soon as weekend comes, it's a club time. I don't mind going there few times a year, but not that often. Then we stay up late, my next day is pretty much ruined, and all ... (365 words)

We want to be more sexual but don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to get more sexual with my boyfriend We have tried to but neither of us know what we are doing we are both 18 and we neither of us are virgins but i don't know how to act sexy or anything please help... (50 words)

His actions say one thing, his words another!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I went to a bar with my 2 girl friends, they invited the guys they're talking to and the guy I'm talking to as well along with other friends. The guy I'm talking to was being really shy and strange because he was with his "boys" I'm not really a big dancer so when he ... (178 words)

Did he get an ego boost from rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunties My crush is usually shy and quiet. I asked my crush out through FB but he said that he had no experience with things like this and that he loved talking to me. But now he is more sociable and louder. So my question is has be gotten an ego boost from being able ... (62 words)

I have 3 small children and want to leave my abusive husband but don't know how to do so!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband (who is now 29) and I (I am now 24) met when I was 18 and he was 23. We've been together ever since. We got married 18 months after we met because I was six months pregnant. After I gave birth, my husband went from sappy, overly romantic and clingy to distant, ... (558 words)

Boyfriend has a problem with me catching up with a male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my bf on an online dating website ( you can look for partners or friendship). We've beem together For 5 yrs. About 8 months before i chatted to a guy on there and we met. I wasnt interested but he was a bit but knew nothing would happen etc. He wanted to stay friends ... (409 words)

Boyfriend looks through my phone. How to make it stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend latey thinks i am hiding something because i dont let him go through my phone. He has done it for most of our relationship, lookig at photos and even messages. I Dont have anything hide. But Lately i have stopped him going through my Phone more than i used... (206 words)

I am really stressed over my bi polar boyfriend behavior

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do about these problems with my boyfriend?. He has Bipolar Disorder. He was very drunk a couple of nights ago. I was on the phone to him. He was shouting and swearing at people going past. He put the phone down for a second , and I could hear him in the distance ... (240 words)

What should I do to be more masculine?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I come here often for advice, so I am here again. This is something that has bothered for me for a long time. I am gay, and I am totally okay with it. But I seem to be very effeminate. I have always thought of myself as masculine, but my friends tell me that they can te... (204 words)

Does she really want to go out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl I like now "used" to like me, I'm not sure if she still does or not, but she gives off the signs she does, and is interested in me still (possibly), but every time I ask her if she wants to come over, or go out to see a movie/eat sometime, she seems really interested, ... (243 words)

I found a sex video on my boyfriend phone and it has just devastated me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found a video on my boyfriend's old mobile phone of his ex giving him oral sex, and a few photos of her just in her underwear. I can't help feelings like he kept them because I'm not enough for him. I've never had much confidence in the bedroom, mainly because ... (320 words)

Affair turned bad and now I don't know how to cope and be a good mom to my kids

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair with a man I met in April 2010.... He lives 3000 miles away but we talked and texted every day often for hours each day... We also met for get always several times.... We both declared the other was the love of our life and hoped one day we'd be together.... I ... (1552 words)

I have feelings for my best female friend and don't know how to act!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've started having feelings for my best girl friend. We've known each other for about 4 months but we've gotten really close as friends. She's friendly with me like she kisses me on the cheek in public and jokes around with me. Everytime I instigate a kiss, she backs away.. ... (99 words)

I feel unappreciated by my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age - I do everything for my boyfriend but he never says he loves me and I feel unappreciated. I have taken him on business trips across the country, expensive sporting events, weekend trips paid for by me, and drive him everywhere when we are together. I have bought him numerous ... (160 words)

My friend always brings her boyfriend to girls night out and it's annoying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My three best friends and I have been a group since high school. Now that we're seniors in college, we're busy but we still organize bi-monthly hangouts. I attend the same school as one of my friends whom I see more often. She is the one I see most often, but whenever we plan ... (367 words)

I don't think she's the type to use someone, but that's how I feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So, I've been talking to this girl since late July, and I have no idea what to do. We both have emotional concerns, and I care about her a lot, and like her quite a bit. However, we've only seen each other in person a few times, despite texting back and forth quite a lot, which ... (272 words)

What's the best sex toy for ldr?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - hi dear aunts, im in a ldr and we love each other very much, however we miss a lot the phsical contact. on my last visit i jokingly told her i would send her "something to keep her company, something she could enjoy and think of me while im away... now she has asked me to send ... (107 words)