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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She's high-stress and overreacts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

4 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore. My girlfriend gets upset at me when I simply try to communicate and says really hurtful stuff in the process. My girlfriend is extremely high stress and I'm very laid back. Since she's so high stress, in general, she tends to lash out at me f... (539 words)

When/how is it appropriate to express interest in getting to know someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

4 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Aunts, The other day I checked out something at my university library which had not been checked out since 1978, and thus lacked a bar code. Since I could not use the self-checkout kiosk, I had to actually go and get a real person to check me out! Whi... (507 words)

He's in jail now. When he gets out do I tell him I was a prostitute and other things about my past?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm talking to a man, who is currently in prison for a charge he caught at 17, for burglary. He gets out in 12 days, and I plan on spending time with him. We write all the time and I have met him. My problem is, he wants to know me, like really know me. My past, my ups a... (205 words)

He's crossed boundaries in the past so I'm tempted to snoop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - need your advice please-to worry or to relax, to snoop or not to snoop! background: i've been with my bf 3yrs, he proposed (out of the blue) 1yr ago and we've since moved in to a new house together and are planning to marry in 2 years (giving us time to save money for the we... (631 words)

Her selfishness is making me consider ending the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My friend L is very sweet and funny, but also oblivious and selfish. I didn't let this bother me before, as I considered it a flaw and who doesn't have those? I also thought, "Her selfishness is her problem." But lately it's been really grating on me. I believe... (773 words)

In love with my late husband's brother - is it wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) age 41-50 - Hi! This is going to be long, so please be patient! I'm a widow. My husband died suddenly four years ago leaving me with three children, then aged six, three and one. I was devastated and it took me a long time to come to terms with his death. He was a wonderful man and we l... (257 words)

Is this video a gift he'd like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so I'm planning to do this sexy elegant video for my boyfriend of me in lingerie, undressing and stuff. I'm in that field of doing videos all the time and have all the equipment to do something quite stunning and very professional. So my question is, if your gir... (79 words)

Why so bitter, when he cheated on me?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello guys. Could use your guidance please. Me and my ex split up about 3 months ago (he cheated on me). I still love him, but know the split was the right thing to do. I am upset about the split, but I do not hate him for it, nor am I angry at him. However, my ex is ... (149 words)

I feel like he's never there for me when I need him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am with my current bf for 3 years, this is my first long term relationship. I love him to bits, i dont mind doing his share of work at home. I thought i found my ideal partner with him, he is sweet, very funny, very confident But he is sweet only when he w... (195 words)

My boyfriend's ex is demanding more in their friendship than I can accept

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay everyone im having problems with my boyfriends girl best friend. A week or 2 ago he hugged her and I told him he needed to chose between me or her. He chose me they stopped having out and barley talked unless it was about their phone bill cause they have a shared plane. ... (379 words)

Trust issues from my ex are influencing my current relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles I would much appreciate your veiws on my problem thank you in advance for reading . Ok well I have been in a very loving relationship with a wonderful wonderful man he treats me like a princess and I love him dearly .. he flew me to algeria to meet his ... (318 words)

Worried because my boyfriend spends so much time with his gay friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his gay friend rather than me. My boyfriend doesnt have that many friends so the gay friend is really the only friend he has. I love my boyfriend so much and I know he loves me but his gay friend is always there. The gay friend ... (107 words)

Long distance but in love what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody! I feel really insecure about a boy i recently met. Just 2 weeks ago we met in a pub and hit it right of. I havent felt this way in a long long time! We only know eachother for 2 weeks but we text everyday and see eachother a lot. The problem: He is going to m... (108 words)

Hurt and broken over an online relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid Im talking abt the same guy i found out has a gf a year ago. An online relationship that i wrote about that was hurting me and later realised that all along was a lie. im completely to be blamed for staying in this relationshio although he had a girlfriend. he gave ... (328 words)

If you were me, would you try and approach this girl and potentially harm a maybe happy household? Or would you simply forget about it and move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 October 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - For about five years iv always had a small crush on the girl who works in my local post office, we would often flirt and smile a lot when we talked, she is about 2 years younger than me at 24. I have never persued it though as I have always been in various relationships and ... (320 words)

He's always back and forth on how he feels about me. How should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Any advice appreciated! I met a guy about 6 weeks ago on a night out. He was really into me, asked for my number and was texting a lot. It came out that he hadn't long been dumped so I kept my distance but started to like him through spending time together. He got a bit distant ... (200 words)

I feel as if I'm going to be alone forever! How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, latley im feeling a little alone. Dont get me wrong i do have friends, but when i try and talk to them about how im feeling all i get just forget about it. Im 23 and never had a proper realtionship. Dont get me wrong iv had realtionships but theyve never b... (174 words)

What's the difference between dating and being "in a relationship"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't think I was ever told the difference between dating, exclusive dating, and being in a relationship with someone. I think I have an idea, but I would like some more opinions, so guys and gals answer away!... (39 words)