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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was the feeling I was being disrespected real or imagined? Was backing out of the arrangements the right action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age - Thanks in advance to the great people who offer help here.I had made a standing commitment to spend time with a friend this evening and called this morning to confirm.She said that was fine but she would also call another friend to join us. I was kind of hoping to catch up... (182 words)

She has recently broken up with her BF. She is a co-worker. Should I ask her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4089 days ago

19 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Kind of a weird one here. I work with this girl who I have liked for a while, 5 months ago we got drunk and kissed at a party and it didn't go so well in terms of trying to develop a relationship. I came across too serious and dramatic. So we didn't talk for ages in work etc.... (257 words)

He messaging a girl on Facebook, just like we did when we first got together! Do I have a right to be upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a relationship that is distance for about two thirds of the year. We've been together for about a year and a half and the distance is ending in a couple of weeks. We talk on the phone most nights and Skype each other once a week. I've noticed that when ... (438 words)

What shall I do if my old manager gets this job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Please help. About 8 years ago I left my job in a call centre because of my manager. She took an instant dislike to me and made my job miserable that I started getting panic attacks. I left there and started another job in another call centre which is now my curr... (266 words)

Why would he flirt but never ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age - Was wondering if someone could possibly give me some insight as to why a man would constantly flirt with someone but, never ask them out. A particular man in question works with me but, on a higher level than I do. I have worked at the same place as him for several yrs. In ... (682 words)

Why should I do if my mum doesn't approve?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 39 ear old guy in Dublin, and fancy 2 women. First woman is 46 years old and lives in London and we have known each other for just over a month now. I have sent her flowers and 2 gifts. The second woman is 39 and lives in Cork, and Ive known her for 2 weeks. I have to met ... (118 words)

I'm hurting so bad, I'm losing him. Please help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice. I feel like I'm dying a slow painful death. I've been with my bf for 3 years. We're the same age. We aren't living together but spent our weekends/a couple days a week together. We've been through, and overcome, a lot in this relationship which is why ... (530 words)

My boyfriend isn't supportive of me when I'm shy and socially awkward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupids, I really hope you can help me because I'm quite upset at the moment. I am 27 and really quite shy. I've always been like this, and although I've tried lots of things to become more confident such as online courses and self help books (and I'm much better than I ... (453 words)

Got the MM and it hasn't exactly been "happily ever after"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - this is very long winded so anybody who has the patience to read and answer...thankyou in advance! 5 years ago i started an affair with a married man. at first it was just fun then it got deeper and everybody started getting hurt. eventually 2 years ago he left his wife an... (961 words)

Can't get over my ex even though he's been ignoring me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18 and this summer I had a month-and-a-half relationship with a guy who was a year younger than me and whom I'd met through some high school projects. We'd known each other since February, but only started talking a lot in May. When I say a lot, I mean we'd message each ... (439 words)

Embarrassed at the end of our first date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I went on a first date with a guy yesterday we've known each other for a week, and I can tell he likes me but sometimes he's really unpredictable, well at the end of the date he kissed me on my lips like a little peck on the lips I thought he was gonna tongue kiss me I didn't ... (114 words)

Our connection was so amazing that I can't get her out of my mind

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

19 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Don't really know how to start this? I'm almost 34. I've had a few relationships. Some good, some not so good. Then awhile back I met this girl. We come from different worlds. She's had a really good upbringing. I haven't. Not that makes any difference. Just life was to... (376 words)

My husband just left me for a younger woman

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i am feeling like a total fool. i was informed last night that my husband of 23 years wants a divorce, he has a baby by a girl that is 24 years old and she is expecting another one by him again... yes you read this right the baby she just had is 4 months old and she is pregnant ... (473 words)

We broke up but still spending time together even though she's hurting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my ex have been in a relationship for 2 years before we broke up. the break up was a very very bad one. however, we talk and still take trips together. she still buy me things. she say she cant forgive me for the past and want to move on.she say she still love me but ... (96 words)

What should I do? My boyfriend is not pleased I am not a virgin.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend asked me if i'm a virgin or not.i told him the truth,am not a virgin and he's not pleased at all because he's a virgin.what should i do?... (30 words)

Why does it have to be complicated when we had a great time on our date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Okay so I went on a date with this guy I met him at a coffee shop and he looked really good. We had a nice time talking and laughing. Before we had met he came on really strong when we were texting each other. He would text me telling me how beautiful I am and was very cha... (638 words)

My mother, my bully.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do i gently approach my mother about her hypocrisy and the damage it has done and continues to do to our relationship? How do I explain that I cannot, allow either myself or my son (8yo), to endure her presence if she continues discounting my thoughts and refuses to even ... (67 words)

The hair therapy girl is sexually provocative and hitting on my husband.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband so much, today we for hair therapy this pretty provocative girl comes n hate that my hubby got amused by her beaty i felt bad insecure n ugly plus im over weight. The girl so tall slim n high heels pretty hair n body i was so dammm angry my hubby was in to her ... (244 words)

I got out of an abusive relationship. But now with my new guy my mother and brother hate him. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got out of a toxic relationship not too long ago - we had been together for 5 years with two kids and he used to bash me up and threaten to kill me. Everyone knew the extent of how severe the abuse was. I have recently started seeing a guy who I think is amazing. He acce... (280 words)

Keep getting hurt in relationships. Are relationships really worth all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

19 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think some people are better off not in relationships and instead dedicating their life to other things? The reason that I ask this question is because of men. I am beginning to think that my life may be better if I don't have relationships anymore. Every relationshi... (800 words)