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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I love my girlfriend to bits..but I have noticed from day 1 she is a very private person but she has opened up to me in the months that we got to know each other better..but one thing that irks me sometimes is she carry's her phone with her everywhere,even if I touch it she gets all paranoid and pulls it away and I have asked her why does she do that,so she tells me 'I don't like anyone touching my phone'..There is a guy at her work place who is hitting on her,so she was reading the text out to me I asked her to show it to me she dint,and deleted the whole conversation..she said she did it because it was already driving me mad..Should I be worried?
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (30 October 2013):
 I wouldn't be worried about this. I am a very private person and don't like people touching my phone unless I give them permission. Maybe she is the same way. It's just a matter of asking her. Don't cross her boundaries of privacy and go touching her phone if she doesn't like it. Just ask her and talk it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2013): If she has nothing to hide then she will let you touch her phone whenever you feel like it. She's being dishonest to some extent. I'd be worried if i were you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2013): I think you need to sit down and talk about this face to face. Tell her you trust her but you do get suspicious when she tends to hide things. Ask her if u got messages from another woman and u did not want to show it to her, how would she feel. A relationship is not only you trusting her but also she trusting you. I DO NOT believe in the one way system ! If she trusts you why does she need to hide things from u ? So best sit down and WITHOUT any prejudice, talk to her !
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 October 2013):
 You should be worried about YOUR own actions. Hounding her and NEEDING to check her phone. Let the girl have some privacy for goodness sake.
Does she go though yours?
Do you trust her?
You are not her parent who needs to know that her/his child is up to no good.
Have some respect.
And if you don't trust her, then TALK to her about it, figure it out or end it.
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