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writes:Hi, basically I am a girl and I have this guy friend, and he told me he liked me in that way, but I don't so I let him down gently and we continued to be friends.Then my current bf came on the scene, and if truth be told I still haven't told my guy friend I even meet my bf let alone be his gf and have regular sex with him.Why? because he is jealous, possessive, obsessive, I wouldn't say controlling, but definitely on the verge of it...He is a right golden boy, can't do no wrong, but in his eyes, people around him are basically complete f*ck ups, he's always picking faults with people and has something to say about everything all the time.And the worst bit - he has said about my bf - "it's me or him"I know the best thing would be to just walk away, which is what I intend to do, but I'm just after different peoples insight like if they were in this situation or something.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 October 2013):
 I thought he didn't know about the BF ??
And the worst bit - he has said about my bf - "it's me or him"
Or was that just in general? If you ever got a Bf?
Well, if it is, there is your answer, he WANTS to be the only MALE in your circle - if he can't be your BF he wants to be in control, THAT IS NOT a friend. He doesn't exactly sound supportive.
Walk away from that "friendship" is not healthy for either of you. The only reason he is sticking around is because he is sure you will change your mind and "like" him back.
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