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writes:I fell for a guy just over a year ago and we got together, we were together for a couple of months and everyday he would message me 24/7 and I would message him back, we'd talk until all hours of the morning until one of us fell asleep. It was continuous.All of his messages were always along the lines of "I love you" "I want to be together forever" "No one can split us up" "Your the only girl I want" etc... My dad hated the guy and told him to leave me alone before me and the guy got together but we'd agreed not to let my dad know. My dad eventually agreed with us anyway.But then I woke up one day and got this text from him saying about how he doesn't love me, he just wants to be friends, he doesn't think its working. I have a friend who is extremely close to him and I've been told he didn't see anyone for about two months after. I avoided him for ages as he didn't reply to my messages anyway but then I started going up my mates again and they live opposite. He then started being all clingy but not committing and he didn't date anyone for the four months I hung up there. And then he stopped again but now he keeps mentioning me to my friends? Whats going on? I really love him and I don't want to let him go I've not gotten attached to anyone since and can't even let myself into a relationship! Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou guys you've helped me too try an move on xx thankyou for the support an advice xx
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Obviously for whatever reason he doesn't think that this relationship is going to work and even though he may mention you to your friends, doesn't mean he wants to get back with you. He is going to miss you, just as you miss him, because you went out together, but something doesn't sound right here, he was messaging one day telling you he loved you, and the next he told you he didn't and wanted to break up, he basically picked you up and dropped you like a hot potato. I know you love him, and as I am the same age as you, I also know how hard it is when you are young and you feel as though you have met the person of your dreams, but if he went from one thing to another then are you sure there isn't something he hasn't told you? Even when your young, you don't just wake up and decide you don't love someone anymore, something must of happened or changed. I'd say what he done was very harsh, and even if straight after that he ignored you, once again that's still very harsh and for that reason i'd say you deserve better. You are better than him and stronger by the sounds of it, I personally think you should move on and forget him, even if its hard, the world is full of people and like me you are only young. If he makes any advances to you, i'd suggest you reject him, and make an attempt at moving on, and leaving him behind, just as he has done to you.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (29 October 2013):
 Honey, he is playing games, running hot and cold with you. Time to move on and stop all contact with this loser. You deserve better and he is not the one. Remember your dad saw through him now you need to see him for what he is and stop thinking about the nice messages, emails, dates as you need to take the shaded glasses off.
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