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I need advice on how to go on top.

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Question - (9 May 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2013)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I need help. I'm 29 years old.

I have a Problem when it comes to sex, I'm always scared to go on top because I really freeze and I don't know what to do. I want to and see him enjoy and come while m on top, I always opt for missionary because I know that I won't be able to satisfy him when Im on top.

How do I do it, I need advice. I think it might be the reason why some guys leave me too soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2013):

Hi, men love it when woman take control. so you cannot possibly go wrong. Also he will guide you as you get caught up in the passion.

Also ask him would he like you to come on to and what would he like you do.

Make it fun, dont stress, dont plan just go with it. It comes naturally. You tease him, stop and then let him say please dont stop. You both can have fun. Its not difficult and he will love anything you feel comfortable to try.

Just relax.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013):

Just sit on, find a nice angle that feels good, start off slow get into it then build it from there and bounce away so he can see your whole body and just enjoy the ride. Try leaning back slightly too, he'll get a good view of ur bod, just go for it, it's just the two of you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013):

next time you are getting it on... try dry humping, with both of your knickers still on.. grind on him sitting on top... don't think penetration, just the grinding and see how it feels... and stop worrying... just get messy.. and enjoy it..

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