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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have had a crush for a while now, and I have a feeling he might like me, as do my friends and his sister. He's never had a girlfriend or kissed anybody that I know of, and he's very shy when it comes to relationships and romantic interests. I'm also quite shy and before I talk to him about it I'm trying to find out whether or not he does like me, to avoid as much embarrassment as possible for both of us. The first thing he does is look at me. The awkward thing is, I've turned around to look at him, and he's already been looking at me. And then he blushes and I blush, but neither of us are brave enough to smile. My best friend says she's noticed that when he enters a room he looks around for me. She says it's happened many times when he's stopped looking around when he sees me, or then continues to look at me. He will be deliberately in the same place as me. I remember mentioning to him what my favourite song was and then he played part of it for me on his guitar. However, he doesn't talk to me very easily. He will talk to every other girl fine, even ones who he knows fancy him, as though it doesn't bother him. He doesn't talk to me like he talks to them. I sit next to him in chemistry and we barely speak. I know it's not because he dislikes me because he doesn't. His sister says that he doesn't as do many other people and I am begining to wonder whether its because he also likes me that he struggles to talk to me. But it's mainly the looking. I've often caught him looking over at me when he's stood with his friends. None of the other guys in my classes behave this way. Could he like me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 May 2013):
 Yes he could like you. It can sometimes be difficult to tell with a guys behaviour. However don't assume that he does like you or else you could end up getting hurt. Instead concentrate on getting to know him better. Yes this is difficult when both of you seem to be quite quiet and shy but you just need to practice and try and make a better effort. When you have the opportunity talk to him, even if it is just a simple hello and asking how he is. When you catch him looking at you then smile at him and show him your friendly side. Just take things slowly and eventually you will both over come the quietness and be at ease with each other. Good luck.
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