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writes:For 1 im with a girl together.Everything is alright, amazing actually she never said anything bad about me or my habbits she slept over at my place, she told her parents about me and they dont have anything against it.My problem is: She studys at college in a city (100km away from her home) and during college she stays in campus and we might quite often (3-4 days a week) and she says she wants to see me and all but during this spring break she went home and we met only once a week and another time she came in the city with some "stuff" to do and we met only for 2 hours altough the night before she promised we would stay alot longer.She gives me the impresion everything is ok but somehow i just feel somethings wrong.Either she dosent really love me or she hides something from me.I really love her shes amazing and i dont want to ruin this relationship so i need some advice...should i be worried?Aditional info...im her 3rd bf, we're 20+ years old she said she never had a long term relationship her longest being ~6 months, we made love till now several times, she says im her 2nd guy she slept with. Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 May 2013):
 Hi
It is hard to say what is going on. You say 'everything is alright, amazing actually', then say she doesn't have a lot of time for you.
She has to go visit her family, so if her parent's know about you and are fine about it, why did you not go with her? Did she invite you?
Could be she needs to study more at the moment and needs more time for that.
You don't say what you do, if you work or are at college too? Do you ever stop over at her place at college or does she always come to you?
If you have a lot of doubts about her then *talk* to her, just *ask* if there's a problem. Don't be clingy if she needs more study time or space, just keep busy yourself.
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