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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi There has been a incident in my relationship. The other week my girlfriend went to the city With her girlfriend and I went to a party with my mates.Later on during the week I heard from a few people that My girlfriend hooked up with a guy who's known to us Outside a certain club. I confronted her about it and she said no .As wrong as it is I went through her emails too look for old Facebook message notifications and I found that - that guy messaged her saying " we had fun outside that club ". It was dated weeks before we dated? Why wouldn't she tell me she hooked up with him before the relationship when I confronted her. When I confronted her about the email she admitted she did before the relationship and didnt say anything because she didnt want me knowing she had kissed another guy a week before we met.I don't understand..Did she do it or not ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013): I have zero tolerance for lying about past sexual hookups with people who are still part of the social circle. If she is lying about which guys she has "history" with or not, then you are not getting the truth about when she is spending time with ex partners. That is basically a form of cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2013): Only she can tell you if she did it or not. Why are you concerned about something that happened before your relationship? Did you date or hookup with any other girls before you met her? Are you a virgin?Try to be a man about it. Ignore the stupid rumors and trust her. If you go around listening to rumors and believing everything you hear; then you're not mature enough to have a girlfriend. Jealous people start crap to keep you apart.She explained why she didn't tell you. Look how you're behaving! You even went snooping around on her. Why should she trust you now? You're almost a stalker!I think you better call it even, and just be nice to your new girlfriend. Unless you have a time-machine, you can't change the past.
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