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My friend started dating the guy I like, they broke up so I thought I had a chance but now she's messaging him again! What should I do?

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Question - (9 May 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2014)
A female India age 30-35, *sh-dil-se writes:

I became friends with a guy(X) on facebook and we exchanged nos. We used to text each other all day and even nights and i really started to like him. He is funny and really caring. But just when i thought that maybe we could become more than just friends... I came to know that one of my female friends (Y) is also in contact with him and flirts with him. Im a very simple girl and this flirting i cant do.. Maybe thats why he found her more interesting than me. And next I came to know that they are in a relationship within 10 days of knowing each other. I was really heartbroken and i vowed never to talk to him again.. But he always texted me and always talked to me. They both broke up after just 15-20 days of being together... And that is when i told Y that I love X. I thought that maybe now i have a chance with him.

But just a few days ago i came across their msgs were she still sends him all lovey dovey texts. I dont know what is she doing? She knows that i love the guy and still.. My other friends say that i should propose him... but Im not so beautiful.. a bit obese actually... what should i do?? Im even confused about how to behave with Y... i dont know i should tell her that i know what is she doing behind my back or i just let her be... Please help me!!

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A female reader, brock24 United States +, writes (23 March 2014):

brock24 agony auntTell him how you feel, before its to late whats the worse that could happen. If he doesn't feel the same it will hurt, but you will be okay

there is someone out there for you.

Best of luck!!!

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