A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've known this guy for awhileHe's friendly and charismatic There's was a point he used to check me out but make it lightheartedOnce I caught him. He's always tried to talk to me but I'm really quietPhysically I'm not tip top shape but I heard him discussing my physique to another guy which sounded like he was trying to change (the other guy)his mindOvertime he's been hanging around waiting for me to say something to him (I feel) and has been physically closer (personal space and touching)From then on I've heard him discuss me or my actions to someone where I can always "accidently" hear itI told this guy named Sam that I liked him (Sam)and you think the word got back to the guy I'm asking aboutHe started acting a little different,when he saw me he wouldn't try to start any conversation,he wouldn't even awknowledge me. (which sometimes he did anyway but for a short period of time)Lately he's been doin the whole discussing me thing but this time he's telling people I like him. With all that I wrote (sorry and thank you) , what's his angle? Or is there one?P. s. if I ever gave him that vibe it was a long time ago,so why wait until now?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (9 May 2013):
Hi
Its all a bit confusing. Why did you tell this Sam you liked him - yet couldn't tell your crush the same in the past.
Does this mean you prefer this Sam so made a move or were you just trying to make your crush jealous?
He might have been interested a bit but now it sounds as though he knows you like somebody else, he isn't going to make a move just to be rejected is he?
If your age IS 26-29 then it's time to stop playing games, if you like a guy then it's HIM you flirt with, not somebody random
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