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writes:I have become really close to a guy who is 2 years older than me (I am 18, he is 20) It started in the new year when we were walking home with a couple of friends from the pub and we were walking in front of everyone else as he had offered to walk me home. Once he walked me to my door, we hugged and said goodbye but then he messaged me on facebook 10 minutes later telling me to go to my door. I did, and we ended up kissing. Ever since he's been coming round almost every weekend, and we speak on a regular basis. The visiting isn't as often anymore but we still speak, however i think i am developing feelings for him, he hasn't been round for about a month and i miss him, his kisses, his cuddles just everything about him. I want a relationship with him, but i don't know if he feels the same and i don't know how to bring it up in conversation. We have banter with each other and i don't want to just straight out ask him. How do i find out what he wants? Or if he feels the same? What do i say?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (30 May 2013):
In general you shouldn't ASK for a relationship, you should CREATE one. You can ask for a commitment if you feel it's necessary, but not a relationship.
Spend more time with him. Do special things. Develop the relationship you want and you can avoid the potentially awkward conversation.
Let's just say you shouldn't have to ask, it should just be obvious that it's happening. If it's not you need to try harder.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (30 May 2013):
 Generally speaking, it's always best to be direct when asking for something you want, no matter what it is.
Tell him that you're romantically interested in him and would like to be his girlfriend. You don't have to be sappy, or fancy about it. Just be simple, direct and straight to the point.
Trust me when I say that most men find honesty and directness a refreshing change that they can deeply appreciate, and most men find that extremely sexy.
Good luck.
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