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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, and lately I feel like every time we talk, it ends up with us getting angry at each other.I know, I am responsible for some of it but he just acts so frustrating sometimes. For example, we'll be talking and we had made plans to go play tennis later. Suddenly, he's like "I can't go anymore". I don't want to go without him even though some of our friends would be there, but it's cause I don't feel comfortable around them alone so I said, I wasn't going either then. He tells me that he has no more contacts so he can't play in the dark, and that's understandable but me being who I am, I point out why would he throw away his last pair if he knew he didn't have anymore? He gets angry and tells me "unexpected things happen" in a very rude and snappy tone, and then when I start getting angry, he guilt trips me and says that he's the bad boyfriend (but sarcastically), so I hang up. Even earlier today, I called him because he told me he was sick so I was checking up on him. He answers me all snappy like and grumpy saying "I just woke up from a nap" and I ask him why he's being so upset and he gets even angrier saying "I JUST TOLD YOU. I WOKE UP FROM A NAP".In this relationship, he used to call me. Now all we do is send short texts, I'm the one calling him all the time, even when I'm upset, he doesn't bother to pick up the phone. I've talked to him about this and it ends up with him saying "sorry" and that he'll "call me back" but never does. Either that or he leaves me upset and goes to sleep saying "there's nothing I can do".Am I over analyzing or does it seem like he's getting bored of me? Should I just stop responding to him? I'm so upset because he's always leaving me hanging and then apologizing but then does it again the next time, each time getting more and more angry with me. I'm honestly confused, please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2013): to be very striaght he is bored of you give a space to your relationship dont call or meet him for few days let him realize your value, again now you will think what if he breaks up with you or he became more angry bcoz it seems you love him very much but remember one beatiful quote"if your love wants to go let it go if it come back then its yours forever"
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