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writes:I've liked a guy for about 5-6 months and we've recently told each other that we liked each other. He said he likes me and wants to do things and become more than friends and i agreed. However, i have never done anything sexual with a guy before, other than kiss and cuddle, and i'm scared/nervous about doing things for the first time.I know, 100% i deffinitely want to do things with him i just don't know if there's any special ways to do things or how not to do things.Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (1 June 2013):
 OP, before you proceed any further ask yourself some questions.
What do you think he means by 'more than friends'? What do you think it means? What do you expect to happen after you 'do things' with him?
When a guy introduces the topic of sex at this early stage, what does that usually indicate?
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reader, angel91 +, writes (31 May 2013):
you say you've liked this guy for 5-6 months...
how about getting into a relationship with him for 5-6 months first, then consider doing sexual things with him. Then you won't need to ask this question.
If you don't want to/can't wait, start slow. Kissing and cuddling is good, and will change the mood when the time's right. If he's experienced he can guide you. Just be sure to communicate and all will be good
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