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writes: Is mutual attraction usually mutual? I have been in a situation where I have always wondered if this particular man was ever attracted to me. Has anyone been in this situation and what are the signs the attraction is mutual, not imagined? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 May 2013):
 MUTUAL attraction is always MUTUAL that's why they call it MUTUAL attraction.
IF you are attracted and the other person is not, it's called a crush....
How do you know if he is attracted to you?
I find unless you are 15 or very immature (or the other person is) that usually two adults who are attracted manage to make it happen...
I have many enjoyable conversations or physical contact with men (and women) I am not romantically attracted to. I will say things that are flirtatious and sometimes outrageously sexual and NOT mean anything by it other than fun and games.
IF YOU are attracted to a particular person and you are not sure how they feel... be bold and ask them to go to lunch or for a drink (coffee is a drink too)
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (30 May 2013):
 Oh I think its those signs and if they find every excuse to phone u and send messages! Just casually ask to meet for coffee, if he takes the bait he is interested if he makes excuses you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2013): By asking. Simple as that.
All of largentgirl89's "signs" I'm like that with every woman, signs of mutual attraction are bullshit because they can be signs of a guy who's just a flirt.
The only real way of knowing is by asking.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (30 May 2013):
 Attraction is not always mutual, but if it is there is usually adorable/cute seductive looks at each other. Hugging or kissing, even just friendly touches. Always wanting to be around each other. Enjoyable conversations with each other.
There are a lot of different signs for mutual attraction. just google signs of mutual attraction.
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