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female
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writes:Hey everyone,So I am an 18 year old girl, and I have had boyfriends, but recently I feel like i have fallen for a girl who is 25.I hardly know her.. my sister is in a singing competition, where this girl is one of the judges, and since speaking with my sister and finding out that this girl is gay I havent stopped thinking about her. She is so beautiful! Last weekend i spoke to her for about 30 seconds (if that) so i dont even think she really likes me or anything. I kept trying to catch her eye too, which sometimes I feel like she was looking at me but not too sure. It has gone 7 days now, and I know that next weekend she will be at the singing competition again.. So i just wanted to know how and if i should talk to her. I have never had a girlfriend, only boyfriends as i said previously so im not too sure how to approach her. I was thinking about following her on twitter, but 7 days after speaking to her for 30 seconds might look a bit wierd.. plus she might not even recognise me..Yesterday, she was also on a popular talent show on the television with a dance group, so she has been getting a lot of attention.. So i dont want her to think that im only trying to talk to her because of this as i have thought she was amazing from the first time i saw her.. (sorry, bit of a cliché there)Thank you for your help in advance!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (15 May 2013):
 If your sister knows her that may be a good way to start talking, or even if your sister knows some things she is into so you could talk about something you have in common.
At the end of the day she is a person just like you, so just be yourself and talk to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): Hi dear,See if you could get closer thru your sister. Don't scare her away by stocking her or anything. Get closer and Just find out if she feels the same way towards you. It does not matter whether you have only been with boys; you just like her as a person and you are also interested to see if she is interested in a personal levell. Is she openly gay? If she is she might not approach you. It is hard for gay people to approach people unless they see some kind of signal. Remember, gay people don't want to get hurt or approach the wrong person. good luck
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