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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:im 13 and desperately in love with this boy. He also loves me, but niether of us are allowed to date. He goes to a different school, so we only see each other when our parents get together. worst of all, in a few months hes moving. what do i do about this guy, i love literally everything about him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (13 May 2013):
 I remember being in love at about that age. It was, like you, a long distance situation. That was so long ago that we had to use snail mail. I don't regret that relationship nor do I feel it was "just a crush" Generally a crush won't survive a physical separation. It was a learning experience at worst. I learned about relationships in a safe situation. I also eventually learned that she didn't have the same depth of feeling for me that I had for her.
I personally believe that the current technology (facebook, Skype , email, instant messaging) has not helped the long distance relationship much. Contact is easier, temptations are greater. I agree that thirteen is too young for dating. Too young for the serious feelings you are expressing. Please be careful.
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