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anonymous
writes:I've heard some men masturbate over their own girlfriends. Some don't. Do you have to look like a pornstar and be really hot before your boyfriend will masturbate to thoughts of you instead of porn?
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (11 March 2013):
I always think of my wife even if looking at porn, and I prefer porn where the people look normal, even remind me of my wife (or an ex sometimes... Sshh....) not the tattooed silicon inflated DD+ that some film producer thinks I want to look at.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (11 March 2013):
This question is kind of crazy. Of course you don't have to look like a porn star. In fact most men prefer a normal woman, not the fake porn star look.
I also think masturbating to your girlfriend is fine, but you shouldn't be on a mission to get him to stop watching porn and exclusively masturbate to you because it's impossible. That's way too controlling for most guys to accept.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 March 2013):
 Heck, I used to masturbate over my Carl Yastrezmski baseball card!!!! It doesn't take much to set off a young, horny guy!!!!!
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013):
That is the kind of relationship I am after, as far as I am concerned he didn't want pictures. He just wanted them to look at when I wasn't there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): I had to dump him I don't think it's healthy to never think of your partner when masturbating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): Why not have a sexy photo shoot where he gets to use a camera all the way through you having sex?
It worked for us, now i have a bunch of photo shoots (and videos) of my wife. A private collection, NOT for sharing, and i masturbate to them all the time, or about ideas about outfits, locations or situations for the next one. Great for when i'm away from home.
My wife doesn't look like a porn star, she looks like a real woman that i can make love to in my thoughts and in reality so i find her easy to masturbate to. She's my porn star and occasionally she'll send me a picture to encourage me home early or to masturbate when i'm away (just be careful if you send NSFW pics).
I hope that helps...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 Define the looks of a "porn star". Then look up some porn online... do they look like your definition?Yes, your boyfriend has to be sexually attracted to you in order for him to masturbate to your image... But if he wasn't sexually attracted to you he wouldn't be with you. Some people (not just men!) masturbate, and some don't. Some people (again, not just men!) prefer to watch porn, or imagine things totally different from their partner when masturbating. Some people (and definitely not just women!) enjoy imagining their partner when they masturbate. Who does what is completely dependent on that particular person, and barely at all dependent on you. Really. I look like I've always looked, no plastic surgery. If anything I've gotten older... Out of 4 serious relationships, only 1 has told me he prefers to think of me when he masturbates. I've not changed, so it's evident to me that MY looks are irrelevant. It is his personal preference that matters when it comes to what he enjoys imagining when masturbating. And truth be told, I hardly ever masturbate to a partner. Not even when I had a boyfriend with one of the sexiest bodies I've seen, and we had sex twice a day and it was some of the best sex ever. He wasn't in my thoughts when I was flying solo. And it doesn't mean I wasn't attracted to him. It's just that different things rock my boat when I'm on my own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): no, my boyfriend prefers me, because i am there with him and i can make it more personal, and im not hot or sexy.
so no not in my opinion!
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