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writes:This is my problem.I’ve been with this guy for almost for years in distance relationship.Last year I couldn’t fix things with moving my studies to his country so I broke up with him, because I didn’t have strength to do it anymore but really short after we saw we couldn’t be without each other and made up. Back than if he’d he promised he would do anything to fix our situation...But now I have 20 days left till the application deadline and he's not helping me. I can’t apply just through the internet, and emailing with people. He even said like why don’t you just finish that last year in your country and come for master here, when he knows perfectly well that I can’t do this another year. It’s been way too difficult, I’m different, I get sick often, my immune system is really bad from all the stressing and I just don’t want to have relationship like this anymore. Even if I would do another year, it's is too much time on distance, we’d eventually fall apart :( I don’t know what to do anymore, and it’s just hurting me that for all this time and all the love he says he has for me, it didn’t occur to him to maybe propose and fix the situation? To be honest, he is a guy, and I know many guys who would've fixed it long ago, and he's 27,our relationship was really good...so I really don’t know what to do anymore? I can’t be without him, I can’t take this distance, and I also worry that if I finish my year here I don’t know for sure that they will credit it in his country.And why would i sacrifice so much and spend my best years on guy who will not support me emotionally and didn’t fight for me and didn’t do the impossible so that we're on one spot :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): If the BF is being such an a$$ why are you up routing yourself for him? ALso looking at his lack of interest in helping you and telling you t finish another year in your country, I have to wonder if has someone else. He just might be having you and another woman and is enjoying it. I would expect a guy to go all out for u to get the visa as he would want you with him and this is not the case.
I suggest before you move to another country you need to make sure that he does not have another woman. It would be worst for you to up route yourself and find yourself all alone in a foreign country.
Remember sometimes things happen for a reason.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 March 2013):
 Can't you apply just sending all the required documents by mail ? I know TONS of people who applied to foreign Universities and not all of them, in fact, almost none , had the time and the money for going in person to enroll in their new universities. What do you need exactly your bf to help you with ?
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