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writes:I'll try to keep this short. Was with a guy for just under a year, one day I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he couldn't answer the question. HE basically told me he was ending the relationship, then decided that we should keep it going till we hit a year then stop. That arrangement didnt work well for me I just ended up in tears on more than one occasion, about a week before it would have been a year I got upset again and we talked and that was it, for me it was over for good, but apparently he still thought we were going till a year and stuff happened between us. It's been a month since he said he wanted to end the relationship and 2 weeks since it would have been a year.I've been an emotional wreck about it.I loved him and I just don't know how to deal with it. I've stopped crying so much, but I could really use some advice on how to deal with it..Is a one night stand with a friend going to help me or just make things worse?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 a one night stand will make it much worse. Do not do it.
in fact, do not seek a new partner for a while.
give yourself time to heal... it will be better a little bit every day.... eventually it will be fine....
next time a boy wants to break up... don't drag it out.... that makes it worse...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 A one night stand will make you feel more empty, reinforce the idea that the only guys you find are the ones who want sex only. When you look back on what he said, you know he's too chicken to break up with you, postponing the date, then went silent hoping you will get the hint. You couldn't do it anymore because a deadline does not make you feel relaxed. Realize the break up has nothing to do with you. Learn to be self reliant and pamper yourself. Volunteer at a pet shelter. Give yourself an aromatherapy bath.
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