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writes:Hi. I'm 15 and my boobs are really small. Like 34A. I get teased about it a lot and I feel really bad about how I look. ?? Do guys even like small boobs? Why do they like big ones so much anyways?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2013): Never fear. My boyfriend worships mine. Says they are perfect. My "girls" are the same as they were in high school and not sagging down to my knees as my friends had predicted that theres would do. I look young and perky because of their small size. There are guys out there that love small breasts so don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): As a guy OP if I was to wake up tomorrow as a girl I'd far prefer small boobs. Not only is that my preference in women but I'd much rather not be known for my boobs. I'd rather not have people stare at them constantly or guys treat me like meat because I have big tits.
I'd rather not have to deal with stretch marks on them as I grow older or the fact that they'll sag like piss in a plastic bag and end up around my knees. I'd rather not have to deal with the back pain or finding them so unmanageable even in a well fitting bra if I can actually find one that supports them without the wire digging into my chest.
I'd rather be able to have smaller boobs that will allow me to be more athletic seeing as even sports bras don't always do the trick depending on the intensity of the exercise and most of all I'm a guy so I know we like all shapes and sizes so I'd much prefer smaller ones because I know they don't make any difference to my attractiveness.
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reader, CharityP  +, writes (11 March 2013):
My father has a dear friend who is older than my father. He is brilliant, talented and very handsome. I have a very small bust, 33 AA, but rarely wear undergarments.
When I was at university, I was lamenting this fact to my mother and was overheard by my father's friend. He is American, so quite outspoken. They seem to be nearly unshockable and will discuss the most intimate things, as if discussing which tea is best.
He most articulately expressed his preference for small breasts and said in his experience they are only upon the smartest and clever women. I certainly have always had high marks and began to notice that he was quite right in general. Certainly, I have met some large breasted women who are intelligent, but the smartest ones I know are all small breasted.
He requested of my mother than he be allowed to sketch me nude and I was shocked to hear both my parents agree. At first, I felt humiliated to be naked in front of him, but the look in his eyes as he gazed at my body left no doubt he thought me beautiful. Over the summer he spent with us, I spent any number of days in his company posing for his drawing, which were quite skillful. Not only did he reveal looks and emotions within me, but there was an aura to my pictures, which made me at times look like a goddess.
Shortly after this, he moved to Japan where he remains. I am always eager to talk to him, because he always forced me to stretch my mind and made me feel greater leaps than I could imagine were well within my ability. He lives in Japan because small breasts are common. He thinks of it as heaven.
So in shot, Yes. There are men who not only prefer small breasts, there are men who worship women who have them.
He once said something which I treasure. "Small minded men love large breasts. Men with vast minds treasure small breasts."
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 March 2013):
 more than a mouthful is a waste....
some men want big butts (they cannot lie)
some want small butts
same with boobs... some want big some want small
To be honest for you... small ones will work as well as big ones for what they are for... feeding your babies... after which they will be LONG ONES no matter what size...
at your age you are not done maturing and growing... and teens are nasty about it and tease you and that sucks...
big boobs are a pain. they hurt, you get heat rash, you get grooves in your shoulders... it's hard to find tops that fit...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): You know what? If you had really big boobs at that age, you would have all the wrong attention. Boobs are thrown in everyone's faces as early as they realize what's going on...society has made it that way...don't even worry about it. Boys your age don't have a clue beyond their pin ups and internet porn what a real women is like...it takes experience and years for it to sink it for them (at least most of them). Take pride in what you have, if you want to enhance, there's a bra (and bathing suits that flatter) for that lol...real always wins over fake and yes, men like all kinds of boobs, but until they mature, they will only verbalize outloud about someone with big breasts because, you know, they have to be cool and run with the crowd (insert sarcasm)...
I'm sorry you are getting teased...there is simply no reason for that...and if it's coming from guys, they are idiots and you don't want someone around like that anyway...girls who are teasing about a body part like that are very insecure about their own self...show them it doesn't bother you, don't react..or look at them with a straight face and say "really?" "you are really making comments about my breasts? How pathetic" and walk away.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (11 March 2013):
The whole big boobs things is actually more instinct than preference. Larger boobs indicate that a woman will be more able to feed children even if times are rough.
I admit that big boobs do something for me. However its not that there is anything wrong with small boobs. Most women don't have what I'd consider to be big boobs, but I've never been disappointed with the breasts of anyone I've been with. In fact, I happily married my wife knowing I'd never be with a woman with big boobs again. She had A's before kids, now has B's.
All men have preferences, just like women. Find someone who is compatible with you and life will be great. But if you worry about those who aren't compatible with you life can be very stressful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): i used to have small boobs and i was a big girl, boys called me flatchested all the time but i didnt let it get to my because they are boobs and now i have 34ff (i dont know how it happend) and boys constently stare running hurts me and even simple things like walking down stares,kills! and they get in the way. and my friend who has 34a gets complemented on her boobs all the time and she doesnt have to deal with all the other stresses. either way you can never win, big boobs hurt, and little ones make you feel small, but babe, boys dont care about any of that because boys like asss and boobs, no matter the size!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): Sweetie, you're a teenager and chances are your breasts are still growing, so I wouldn't worry too much about it :)Supposing they don't... I'm 24 and mine are also 34AA, if that. I've never had any trouble getting dates or having relationships and actually wouldn't want bigger breasts even if I could have them without surgery. I wear sports bras almost exclusively because it annoys me that almost all the bras in my size are heavily padded, as though I should want to fake having larger breasts. I don't. I actually find my appearance to be a great screening tool. Honestly? I have a lot to offer a man, physically and otherwise, and any guy who would write me off as a potential partner just because I have small breasts is not someone I'd want to date anyway. Getting passed over by the guys who actually are that shallow is a win/win for me :)Breasts are just one part of the package. Be a confident interesting person and guys will flock to you regardless of your cup size :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 They don't like big ones any more than they like small ones. Of course, there'll always be one guy who has a general preference for one or the other, but in total, they like breast... No matter size or shape.
If you get bullied, or picked on, it's not because of breast size. Bullies will always find something to pick on someone about, whether it be breast size, the clothes they wear, their hair, their hight (too short, too tall, you name it). Bullies will always find something to pick you on for. And they pick on others because they are so insecure themselves. They don't even realize how much they are hurting others, because they are so self obsessed and worried about themselves. So they bully others to make themselves feel better.
Besides.. what boys your age have ANY experience with a real woman and real breasts? They don't, and if they tell you they do then they're lying. And, you're not fully matured yet, so wait with saying you have small breasts until you are fully matured and see what you've ended up with.
I can promise you, from personal experience, and from the experience of my small breasted friends (I'm relatively small breasted myself), boys and men love BREASTS, no matter size or shape. They just love boobs. When you get a boyfriend who cares about you he'll be all crazy about YOUR boobs, no matter what size they are. And, when you're out clubbing and dancing all the men will stare at your cleavage, no matter how much you've got busting out of it. They love cleavages, skin, and nipples, and boobs. They love all of it, and they generally don't give two scents about the cup size, as long as they get to play with them.
So you've got small breasts, at least for now. Well, they're still breasts, so no worries.
And if you still don't believe me I can tell you there's a lot of porn out there with flat chested women, and if that isn't proof of how guys do enjoy that too then I don't know what is. My girlfriends with A-cup sizes never had any problems getting dates and relationships. My boyfriend actually told me he prefers small breasts (AA-A cup), mine are actually a bit too big for his porn-preference. But like I said before, when the man cares for you he'll be all crazy for your boobs no matter the size.
Don't listen to guys who gang up on you or pick on you (or girls who pick on you). At your age no one has a personal opinion, they're just mimicking what's supposedly "cool" at the moment. Same like everyone starts smoking just because it's so cool, and everyone says they like it even though I promise you.. no one likes smoking unless they're addicts, and there's barely ANY 18 year olds who start smoking, because by then you know it's dumb. But yet all the 14 year olds smoke because they think it's so cool.. they've got no opinion of their own. That's why they do what they do, and say what they say. But none of it is true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): Guys like ALL boobs! Seriously, I am 25 and a 32A and I've never had any complaints at all. Men like boobs because they don't have them - they are different and therefore interesting. But trust me, it won't matter to a guy what size they are. If they get to see them they will be delighted!
PS - this is basically the girl version of the 'penis size' worry lots of men have. They are paranoid about it when most women don't give it a second thought.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (10 March 2013):
 Don't feel bad hun. The people who are making fun of you are insecure about themselves and are no better by making fun of you. You're perfect the way you are. Yes, guys like small boobs and large. Some guys have preferences, but most don't care and get turned on either way. Don't feel insecure. The guys who matter will have nothing negative to say about your body.
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