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*erry795
writes: Why does he still keep his mothers adress on everything when he's been living with me for almost 3yrs already? Its my house yes we are both divorced yes he's commited 2me...but why won't he change his address now? Please give me some feedback...!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 March 2013):
I'm sorry but I don't buy that... he lives with you and is committed to you but won't do a change of address? it's not that big a deal.... if he's lazy about that, what else is he lazy about?
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reader, berry795 +, writes (12 March 2013):
berry795 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo reason he does it other than he says..wen he moved out his house he wasn't divorced yet and he just put everything 2his mom (iwitnessed this) but then a few months later he moved in w\me..its just being lazy and when he's all done with paying his maintence and child support 2 ex he will be better off..I said mayb he's afraid that ex will know where he lives on his check he sends her its his moms address..he says its not a problem but mayb yes it is a big 2 do 2 change everything i know i did..he really doesn't hav any mail cuz his brothers business he works 4 pays his cell and car so he owns nothing..just bank stuff and sons car ins is his moms house whom we live near..so iguess I'm just being careful and paranoid...?he gives no reason 4me 2 question any of this so ishould just wait and see
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 March 2013):
have you asked HIM? what does he say?
Around here it's cheaper for car insurance depending on what your address is.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (11 March 2013):
It may not mean anything in particular, and happen just out of convenience or sheer laziness. Changing officially your address is always a pain in the neck, you've got to inform of the change all the people who need to contact you, there might be burocracy involved or long waits on the phone..- he might just not want to bother , since, I suppose , every now and then he'll go to see his mom and he can get his stuff then.
Do you have any reason to think that it may mean more than that ?
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