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Does she have feelings for me? How can I determine this by her words and her actions?

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Question - (10 March 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2013)
A male Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear all

I know a woman who is single and she is aged around 42-45.

We speak openly and are good friends too.

When talking to me she told me that she is bored and needs company.

She told me she wants to start a new life. I understand her desperation.

But are these indications that she's interested in me? Does she mean she'd like to be closer to me? Does she have feelings for me? I am a guy in my 30s.

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A female reader, CharlyMA United States +, writes (11 March 2013):

I see your quandary, here. On the one hand, she is just having an open conversation with a friend. On the other hand, it could be her way of hinting to you to make a move. As a woman, I have tried that tactic in the past, when I was too shy to come right out and proclaim my interest in somebody. How does she act around other people? Does she seem like the shy type? If not, then she is probably just using you as a sounding board..venting to a willing listener.

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A female reader, Paula4u United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2013):

Paula4u agony auntI would say perhaps here any guy will do, take a step back just be a friend and watch the situation. Unless you are attracted to her, what type of woman is she. If life is boring she has the power to change that herself, you are not responsible for her.

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