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My girlfriend exchanged nude photos with another guy

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Question - (8 July 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, me and my girlfriend met at college and I can honestly say that I adore her and fell in love with her. I would find myself doing ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that I could for this girl. She has been through some tough times and has had a messed up past, she doesn't know what its like to be treated right, until I came along. All guys are not the same. Not all guys just want to use girls for sex. I'm one of those guys. I love this girl for everything she is. But I was playing a game on her ipod as she was sleeping next to me and I accidentally clicked on this free texting app called Pinger. I noticed it showed there were images sent between her and another guy who we both recently met. They exchanged nude photos to eachother and I was so furiated that I deleted the conversation after asking her what it was about. She did this about 3 months into our relationship. I love this girl with all my heart I just dont know what to do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2013):

There is a lesson here. Most girls who "never find a guy who treats them right" don't really want a guy like that. Not as much a they want something more "exciting" (read: more drama.)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2013):

she didn't even delete the pics off the phone?! Oh hell no, maybe I'm the jealous type, but I would not put up with that shit.

Is there any excuse for doing that behind your back? Not really! dump and find someone who will be as loyal to you as you are to them

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2013):

She doesn't deserve to have a bf like you.

Its rare for a guy to say I could do anything and everything for a girl.

Maybe because your still young and idealistic.

You have two options.

1.Forgive her and move on -- start all over. But mind you you can never forget about what happen.

2. break up with her and find someone who deserve your love.

Its only you, who can decide.

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