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*icole.x
writes:I need help! Just over a month ago my boyfriend who I had been with for ten months one night just got up and left! He came back the next day saying how sorry he was we spent the day together we slept together and then the next day... He had gone again! He told me he no longer felt as in love with me as he once had and it was for my benefit that he left... We haven't really spoken since. I never saw it coming :( we didn't argue everything seemed fine. Its been really hard the last month I'm currently not having any contact with him as it makes me feel worse but we work together at the weekend what can I do to get over this? Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (11 July 2013):
 Basically, in short and in truth, it's over. In geek terms: "You've got to take a shot to the face" and move on.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (10 July 2013):
You forget him and move on. It gets easier with each passing day.
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reader, Nicole.x +, writes (10 July 2013):
Nicole.x is verified as being by the original poster of the question So... Today my friend told me that she saw my ex driving his car last week with another girl... I can't change my shift no and my boss is really clicky with my ex boyfriend and it turns out it could even be her he's now dating... What can I do to stop this from hurting so much?
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reader, DV1 +, writes (9 July 2013):
He's a flake. A lot of people tend to be like that nowadays. A lot of people just seem to not know what they want. Be cordial and/or professional and don't acknowledge anything personal. If it gets out of hand, talk to your boss. End of story.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (9 July 2013):
Ohhhh I feel terrible for you. He is not for you. You need to focus on doing things for you. He did the right thing in telling you that he no longer loves you. You want someone who loves you. Who cares for you needs and feelings. You want someone who will make you a better person!
Move on. Don't look back. I know it's hard but if you focus on other things like going to the gym, educate yourself, read a book, take some courses. Anything to focus on but him.
Can you get your shift switched? Do you have an understanding boss? No contact or seeing him is so much easier to move on.
Good Luck
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