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writes:My girlfriend of 2 years and I recently broke up. I guess it's not really recently its been since Thanksgiving.She has a new boyfriend and I have new girlfriend who I like a lot don't get me wrong, but I can't seem to shake off my past girlfriend. I mean I was in love with her.. maybe I still am... I was prepared to ask her to marry me on Christmas, but we ended on really bad terms and I know she hates me now, and its over for good. My question is I guess I don't know how to move on. I have this new girl who's great and we actually already seem more compatible than me and my ex ever were. I just can't shake her out of my head. I'm fine when I keep busy and my mind off it, but when I have down time I'm just torn up inside by it. I'm a believer in soul mates and a part of me is scared I messed up with mine. I guess I'm just asking if anyone else has had this issue I mean its pushing 2 months I should be moving on right?
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reader, R1  +, writes (6 January 2013):
 It does seem very soon to be starting a new relationship especially when your ex is still on your mind. The good thing about breakups is you are allowed to take time to feel depressed and mope about, then you can get up and back out there. Don't try and rush things or you could hurt this new girl.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 January 2013):
To be in love with your ex-girl for 2 years was wonderful.There is no way you can move on after only 2 months this is not possible.You need time and a lot of space to yourself to move on Not always wise to go into another relationship so soon .Take Time Out just for you .Best Luck .Nora B.
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