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What can I do about my friends rude boyfriend?

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Question - (6 January 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2013)
A female Australia age 36-40, *eccamega writes:

I've known my friend for years longer than his boyfriend. I can't stand my friends boyfriend because he is so rude. He always answers for my friend and butts in. My friend can answer for himself.

The boyfriend also answers everything with " if you're got a problem, see a therapist". I find this very rude. We also went to a concert. I didn't know the boyfriend was going. All the boyfriend did was complain and nag all night. I really wanted to ask him why did he even bother. What to do?

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A female reader, meccamega Australia +, writes (10 January 2013):

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Thankyou I was hoping their relationship would fizzle out by now. Instead they've gotten more serious about each other. Urgh

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A female reader, Abella United States +, writes (6 January 2013):

Abella agony auntWhat a bore he sounds. First deal with your boyfriend and arrange some outings where the other guy is not advised and is not invited.

Then ask your Bf to deal with the rudness and that may be all you need to do.

But if it is not enough.....

If he interrupts your BF in the home then your BF needs to stand up to his friend.

But if you are asked a question and you start to answer, and the wingman interrupts you, then you stop. You stand up, look shocked and look directly at wingman and say, "That was very rude. I was speaking. If you can just wait your turn wingman I am now going to answer the question x asked."

This guy who interrupts is very nasty.

If he gives you a rubbish answer, in response to a request to not interrupt then just poke fun at him.

If he still cannot take the hint then ask:which gutter did he enrol in to learn his manners?

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A female reader, Hurttohell United States +, writes (6 January 2013):

That sounds so annoying :(

He's just a dick nothing you can do about it. I've learned that these people a lot of the time don't know/care about others feelings.

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