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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I were making out, and he was playing with my boobs, squeezing and rubbing them hard. Then he kissed down my neck and started kissing/sucking on my boobs. It felt really good and I really enjoyed it, but in the future what should i do while he is doing it? I was mostly just sitting there enjoying it., but i want him to be enjoying it too... we have only been dating a couple months so i'm not ready to do anything too sexual...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (7 January 2013):
I would suggest punching him in the neck, that should keep him off.
If that doesn't work you could always talk with him. Most guys are more than willing to go at a pace that makes the girl they are with comfortable. If you were enjoying it there was really no way for him to know you don't want to take it further at this time. So that's why communication is important.
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reader, fzald +, writes (7 January 2013):
If he tries to actually get you to have sex with him after "making out" this way, then you have every right to say "no."
Since you are in a relationship, however new, it's a good idea to get used to communicating your expectations, desires and limitations to him. Think by yourself how long you'd like to be dating before you might be ready for sex or any other sexual play like that.
Then have a nice talk with him. This should be a nice, comfortable discussion. Don't get "authoritative" or demanding and insensitive, just express what you are and aren't ready for and if he loves you he'll understand.
If you're OK with having your boobs sucked and fondled, then let him know that, and maybe you could agree that for now you'll be sticking to these sorts of "outercourse" activities.
Also, think about this: are you comfortable giving him any pleasure? Like are you OK with touching him back?
Good luck and happy relationship!
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