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writes:I recently got married...it was an arranged marriage..after marriage I fell head over heels in love with my husband....idealising him like anything..a month or so he went to the states while I have to wait for my visa process to finish..long story short we are separated by miles and miles and miles..But this has not made any difference in our relationship. We talk on skype on a daily basis. He has told me indirectly many times about his love and I have no doubts. The problem is when it comes to expressing I am nil...I cant show him by my actions because of the distance but whenever i try saying the phrases "I love you", a lump comes and somehow the words never come out...Although I feel as if I am floating and my chest swells and I feel really good while talking to him, but somehow or other I cant say...i tried once mailing him but did not know what to write so didn't. Can you aunts help me out here telling me how to tell my husband of my never ending love.......my heart thiumps it but my tongue doesn't. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Paula4u  +, writes (22 January 2013):
 go to bluemountain.com and find a really nice card to send him that tells him you love him. Thats the easiest way and its nice to be in love.. go for it girl ..;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013): First of all, that's amazing that you have fallen in love with your husband :) As for telling him, it seems he feels the same so I think you should just say it. However, if you are really struggling to find the words why don't you mirror the indirect ways he has been showing his feelings to you? He should work it out from that and maybe he'll be confident enough to say it to you first. Maybe he's waiting for a sign that you'll reciprocate his feelings before he says it? Or maybe the next time you email him you sign it off with something like 'love you' or 'lots of love'? That way it gets the point across without a big declaration. I think you are just nervous and once you get the first time out of the way it will be much easier to express yourself. All the best :)
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (22 January 2013):
 My brother had this same problem when he was dating his girlfriend (now wife). He drew her a little picture (nothing fancy, he's not an artist!) and wrote "I love you, (her name)". I know this because she kept the note and framed it! Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (22 January 2013):
 send him an email with a link to this page.
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