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writes:Okay so I recently started noticing something about my friend, strange behavior! We recently got accepted to a university and we share a dorm together. I never really noticed it about her untill we moved together. Okay so the strange behavior is that she is crazy obsessed about guys. So she liked this guy and recently the guy unfriended her I have been noticing a strange pattern. So she meets all this guys on Facebook and flirts with them alot and then they meet in public, though the strange thing is that she is on Facebook all the time when I mean all the time I mean literally all the time! She stalks guys she likes on Facebook, some of the guys she stalks are my friends and you know you can tell when someone is online, well its starting to scare me, one of my friends she likes works late hours and after he leaves work at about 3 am in the morning she is always there and tries to talk to him, he even said to me what's up with your friend stalking me! So my friend said that she meet her and then they talked but started noticing the stalking behavior, he told me he unfriended her a couple days ago! I talked to other guys around campus and they told me the same thing and I am worried should I move to a new dorm, she is really creeping me out and she wakes me up at night with her constant facebooking and she is starting to creep me out what should I do, she is starting to effect my school work, please help.......is something wrong with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2013): That is odd behaviour and she needs to go to her doctor to talk to someone about it but if you feel that you are not the person to tell her then you should try and tell someone that could help her because it sounds pretty obsessive and it cant be doing her studies any good. You should try and move doorms as it is affecting your studies.
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reader, R1  +, writes (17 January 2013):
 She isn't stalking you so no need for you to move. Maybe you could help her meet a decent man who will treat her right. Sounds like she's stuck in a vicious cycle of choosing the wrong men then getting treated badly.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (17 January 2013):
 how can u be college roomates with a girl when ur a guy?
I think u should get rid of her asap. a person whos constantly on facebook stalking people and wont even let u sleep at night.... u've had enough my friend. go move in with one of ur male friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2013): Naw there's nothing wrong with her, she's just a desperate, overbearing woman obsessed with facebook and cock.
She's not a threat to you OP so you've no reason to be this afraid.
Now the waking you up at night thing is a big deal, that's not on. You need your sleep and if she's preventing that then you need to tell her so. That would be good grounds to find another place to go but as far as the facebook thing goes most girls are nuts about that site and spend all day on it. And if your friend is that desperate and needy let her off, she's not doing it to you and you're not going to get romantically involved so it doesn't effect you in any way. OP she's harmless, just leave her too it, sounds like she's desperate for male attention any way she can get it, but it really has nothing to do with you.
Talk to her about reasonable hours though OP, she can't keep you awake like that but other than, don't take this wrong way, but mind your own damn business. What's it to you what she does online? How does it effect you? Are you really that afraid you think she's going to stab you in your sleep?
You Americans are such an incredibly nosy paranoid people it;s weird, you think everything effects you and everyone is threat. I'll never get how you can live with that mindset, maybe you should buy an assault rifle to protect yourself haha.
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