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30-35,
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writes:Hi,I need some advise. I am very confused.There is this guy, which I really like. I moved to London in September and I met so many guys, but this guy I like is the only guy I have liked now in England.He is so different then the other guys, by different I mean by behavior, etc.We used to chat a lot over phone and flirt,etc. I really enjoyed it. Then one of our mutual friends who likes me said some things about me to the guy I like, some stupid things, which are not true.SO, the guy I like stopped talking that much to me,etc. And of course now I do not talk to the guy who ruined everything.Anyway, the guy I like and I started talking again, and I'm very sure he knows I like him. But he plays hard to get, which is actually good, but I don't know what to do to be honest. Also, I always catch him looking at me when I don't look at him!My friends think he likes me because he keeps on looking at me constantly, and when I look back he looks somewhere else. He is very shy as well, forgot to mention.It is hard to meet up with him I think because he may be shy and he also goes very often boxing so he doesn't have that much time.Then, last night after the gym, I went to this shop where his cousin works, and i was just talking to him relaxed,etc. Although his cousin used to like me, but I told right away I don't want anything with him. However, the guy I like, his friends were there. And apparently his two friend told him 'Oh I think she has a thing with your cousin', so he texts me asking me, and I explained him how I don't have anything with him and I do not like him and how I already told him etc. And he was like 'alright'.Anyway, does anyone have any advise what to do? I really like him. And I would love to spend some time with him etc. But not sure what to do anymore. He is very hard to get, and I think this is my first time I am trying for a guy. Please help me.ALSO, i asked him out jus to chill and similar,but he says he wants to,but he always goes to his training. Do i even have any chance or what?And what should i do?Tnx xx
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (18 January 2013):
Young love is never easy just chill out and stop trying so hard to get ths guy. Give him space and time and remember if he is into boxing he is not that shy. For a change you play to get and let him be the ONE to contact you .If he does not let it go because it takes 2 interested people . Best Luck .Nora B.
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