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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my guy and I were doing nicely. he is 4 years older than me.we work at same office, travel by the same bus.i met him 6 months ago. Soon we were so close(went for shopping,movie, beach and restaurant together even made love).He had even told me about his previous relationship.but that didn't bother me.i told him that i am in love with him and wanted to have a family with him.at first he told he has no, to such an idea because he wants to be single, and he doesn't get such a thoughts. But if he did then i would be his wife.everything was going smoothly when suddenly i had to work at other branch of our office.A new girl started talking to him.he would tell me everything whatever he talks to that girl. i could not take it and started feeling possessive. initially he was bothered about my reaction towards their casual talks.After sometime he did not respond to my texts when she was travelling with him. i started fighting with him for small issues for his lack of interest in me.after sometime we would be back on normal track.though that girl calls my guy as her frienf i could not take it.after thinking a lot i realized that i should not have fought with him and called him.he had cut the call saying that he was busy.in the evening he text ed me. in real excitement i sent him more than 5 texts at a time.he did not reply.late in the night he told me that he had an issue and could not reply meWhen i next checked his mobile i fiund he had been texting that gal instead of me.i just told him not to text me if he does not wants.i did-not call or text him the whole day but he had sent me good morn and good night msg. he knows very well that i am angry on him. yet he has not called me back. actually i love this guy very much and cant be without him . since is so caring understands what i think, responsible.i was waiting for this guy the whole life and has never dated other guy.what do i do now ?please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): In India where virginity is prized,what are you going to tell your husband?You are freaking out because you lost your cherry to this guy.He is now having his sights set on another girl.Its very obvious.He is not a guy to be trusted.You are going to end up with a huge heartbreak.Check what is hymenoplasty with a gynecologist.Next time,do not date in workplace and do not sleep with a guy so easily.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (12 January 2013):
I know that you must be hurting when you are so in love with this man. But it is not wise to be sending lots of texts this will only annoy him. Try and be calm within and let him have his Space and wait and see what happens Remember if a man wants to contact a woman he will you cannot pressure him in to it. If he contacts you Great, if he does not try and let it go. It takes 2 people in a relationship. Best of Luck Nora B.
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