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*wrk1990
writes:so i met this very cute french girl (and i mean damn beautiful) at a uni pub crawl we met at the 3rd of 5 bars we spent most of the night together talking (about 4 hours) the first hour or so her friend was with us but when we got to the last bar she left us to talk alone. now we talked and i thought we got on very well the 4th bar we didnt drink at all but stood outside talking (3 of us) whilst they smoked at last bar we got there and she offered to get me a drink (which is new for me a girl offering to buy a drink) and she was quite insistent on it i then got the next two rounds and the two of us went and found a quite part of the bar to sit and talk. right this is where i fail i am useless at reading signs during the conversation out of no where she asked me to add her on facebook but with no signal i couldnt so she wrote her name in my phone then got a pen and wrote it on my hand and got paper wrote it on that and gave me it also whilst we talked she was always smileing and laughing and giving alot of eye contact and flicking her hhair back with hand right so what i am asking is was she being very friendly or does she like me? unfortuantly 20 minutes before the bar closed my very drunk friend stumbled over and sat at same table as us and would not leave even with her friend trying so when the place closed we left as a big group but the 2 of us walked on ahead and she took a couple photos of me in the big red phone boxes? with so many people around i didnt want to try anything incase i have read it wrong and i got shot down big time ...... so i have added her on facebook and we talked today for a bit very jokingly and i invited her and her friend to a flat party at my flat (where we will all head at a club later) on friday and but her laptop stoped working so she got me to add her friend so that she could message me through her profile if they where coming .... (thinking on it i should of just given her my number) .... right so i added her but i didnt get a message from her friend and they didnt come ... so like i said im bad at reading these things what do you think? what do i do? what is my next move if any?
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (12 January 2013):
Ahahaha - are you serious about asking if she liked you??? This girl must have liked you so much!! She bought you a drink! You talked for hours! She smiled and held eye contact and made sure you got her facebook name and contacted you through someone else's profile.Well, maybe she' s not sure now if you like her, either. Since you invited her and her friend to a party, which is not completely easy to read for a girl. Could be just friendliness, no?Get back on facebook, say you had such a good time and that you wondered if you can meet again. Make a suggestion and give her your phone number. I think it would be better if the next time it's only the two of you.If she says yes to that invitation, you can be 100% sure she's interested in you. *kiss*
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (12 January 2013):
 I'd say she definitely likes you! Next time you send her a message on Facebook, include your phone number. Give her a clue that you like her - she's not a mind reader either!
When she texts/ phones you, ask her out. It can just be casual, like a coffee date or inviting her and her friend along to another party or night out. Good luck, you sound like a nice guy!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (12 January 2013):
 Sounds like she was flirting at the very least and wanting more interaction at best. You Brits and your terms; a uni pub crawl. I gotta get to your country (It's on my bucket list).
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