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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What should I text him? I really like him:(?There's guy that constantly stares at me but looks away when I catch him in the act.p />•goes out of his way to open doors for me•Is really friendly and talks to everyone but NEVER talks to me:(•he asked me to sign up to personal training with him. (He's a PT)He said to let him know. and I want to sign up, so what should I text him?I really like him. He's so cute but he won't speak to me and I'm a shy girl:(
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reader, oldbag +, writes (13 January 2013):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-it-mean-if-he-stares-at.html
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reader, oldbag +, writes (13 January 2013):
Hi
You again!
You say the same things about the same man at your work every time
TEXT HIM as you now have his number - even though he NEVER talks to you
- and take ALL the advice the Aunts and Uncles have given you when you have asked about him numerous times before.Thats if you ever read the answers they take time to give you
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female
reader, oldbag +, writes (13 January 2013):
Hi
You again!
You say the same things about the same man at your work every time
TEXT HIM as you now have his number - even though he NEVER talks to you
- and take ALL the advice the Aunts and Uncles have given you when you have asked about him numerous times before.Thats if you ever read the answers they take time to give you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): Well, if you have the guts to make the first move, Go ahead and text him like Hi! i would love to sign up, hope there's still room for me.
or maybe text him hi! i heard your the best PT. im dying to sign up. Its flirty and fun. but before you text something stupid think about it for like 100 times.
But to be honest, i think text is harmless. if you think he likes you, we'll im sure he will appreciate you making the first move..... have fun and enjoy the ride...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): If you have his mobile number he must have given it to you and you must have communicated cos he asked you to sign up for personal training with him ?
Your question is odd,it dont make sense cos you say he stares but looks away so you must stare too. You say he dont talk to you but he obviously has.You say he goes out his way to open doors for you. Does this guy do ANY work ?
Conclusion- he has asked to train you so you walk up to him as a professional at work,say yes and ask him for a schedule.You do not do it via a text message. You sound very young or very inexperienced?
Its unlikely he chose you without consultation or direction from somebody, HR or his superior. It wont be so he can get to know you on a personal level.You are overthinking this whole situation and have a fantasy thing going on here.If he is a PT at a gym its his JOB to train people!
Widen your social life, get a new pastime,divert your thoughts away from him.
If he wants to date you,if he is single,he will ask you out on a date,he has not done that so far.Thats the bottom line.
He knows you can either say yes or no and men CAN handle rejection so theres been absolutely NOTHING stop him has there?
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