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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone. I´m going to have this strange period..because all my close friends are leaving abroad this month, to study, to work..Actually, it happened that all of them are leaving even the same week which is extremely depressing for me..I´m not used to loneliness, we used to hang out all the time together, partying etc..I can´t imagine how it will be without them..I would go too, but I study here and also have a boyfriend..but we don´t see each other as much as I´d want, because we´re from different cities, so we see each other only like 2 times a week and it´s not always during weekends because of his work and studies during the weekends in another city..But when I couldn´t see him I was always with my friends..and now I just can´t imagine to be fridays or saturdays evenings sitting at home..I´m really depressed of this and I often wake up with tears in my eyes because I dream about it almost every night..Of course I have also different friends, but they´re not so close and I don´t go with them out, because they´re not my couple of tea in terms of interests and having fun etc..I really don´t know what will I do..thanx for your advices.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): thank you for answers:) of course i will stay touch with them:) and yes I´ve already found some new hobbies and interests, but that won´t take you out on fridays and saturdays nights:P i guess i have to start go out with more distant friends even if it´s not so much fun with them..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): I move around a lot because of the military and I know how easy it is to become depressed when you part from friends but you are going to make new ones, just keep in touch with your old friends if you can that will make you feel better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): why don't you try to get involve with other activities? Volunteer for something worthwhile like maybe free tutoring for kids or maybe get a job, that way you will meet other people and occupy your time.
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